it’s a really healthy tree
When I was a kid, I remember we had a raspberry bush in the garden that suddenly started giving spectacular amounts of incredibly juicy raspberries. It did that for a couple of years, and then we started having problems with the septic tank. When my Dad dug it up to find out what was wrong, he discovered the raspberry bush's root had reached into the tank and the bush was having a field day with the nutrients in there.
I suspect your tree is doing well for the same reason. If it got used to the land of plenty, it might suffer from being cut off of it.
Sorry I don't have any particular advice to give you with respect to your problem though - apart from digging up the pipe with a shovel and trying to work around the tree's roots, which is not something your contractor will be willing to do that is.