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In the monthly server updates for lemmy.zip/piefed.zip there's a mantra that's repeated every month. I think it's wonderful and can be applied to the Fediverse as a whole.

If you’re new here - WELCOME! I hope you’re enjoying your time here :)

Just one small teeny-tiny request. The greatest gift you can give the Fediverse (Original: Lemmy.zip and Piefed.zip) isn’t money, praise, or interpretive dance (although we would absolutely accept the last one). Its participation.

Upvote the things you like. Start a discussion, debate, or ponder about whether water is wet or merely makes things wet. Make new communities if you don’t see one that fits your oddly specific niche obsession.
(We don’t judge. Well, we try not to judge anyway.)

The fediverse naturally ebbs and flows, tides of people come and go. But if you’ve found yourself oddly attached to this strange little corner of the internet? Wonderful. Help it breathe. Help it grow. Help it be just a tiny bit weirder in the best possible way.

So if you’ve gone to the effort of clicking Sign Up and proving you’re not a robot (unless you are, in which case hello and welcome to our new AI overlords), then please, I beg of you:

Stick around. Add your voice. It really does make this place better.

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[-] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 14 points 17 hours ago

There are days where ei literally don't even have time to read anything, let alone posting.

But I'm not a lurker.

[-] felsiq@piefed.zip 7 points 16 hours ago

And I appreciate your content, I still remember your hyprland setup tipping me over the edge to finally go down the window manager rabbit hole 😂

[-] Ulrich@feddit.org 15 points 18 hours ago

Start a discussion, debate, or ponder about whether water is wet

Do we really need more petty debates? 😅

[-] gkaklas@lemmy.zip 11 points 17 hours ago

I don't know about this one specifically 😅 but people probably have the need for these debates anyway, so it's just better to express them (on the Fediveree)! 😁

It's like, how in some movies and shows people have "meaningless" discussions in a bar about random trivia etc; if people don't behave in a toxic way, it's just a way to connect and share ideas!

And in some (most?) cases, the discussion might be more important than the result of it, since you see in practice more about how people can approach this type of curiosity about a subject, which might apply to many other topics we think about every day 😁

More importantly though, where am I supposed to go to debate if water is wet, if not to the Fediverse? 😄

[-] Ulrich@feddit.org 4 points 17 hours ago

I find that people on the internet are largely incapable of level-headed discussions.

[-] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 15 hours ago

Eh, it's not like they are going to somehow get better at it without practice...

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[-] MehBlah@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

You cannot fault people for following rule 33.

[-] Hazor@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

Can I fault them for following rule 34? ...please?

[-] ClownStatue@piefed.social 7 points 17 hours ago

I love the goal this port is trying to achieve, and I try not to be negative about content. But lately I’ve seen the kind of gate keeping that is souring people on that other site.

I’ve had 2 fairly recent examples of it. In one case, the community pushed back on the poster for being an ass. They repeatedly doubled down, and were repeatedly called out for it. It was good to see.

The second was a mod applying a definition to a community that doesn’t exist in its stated rules. I haven’t finished with that one yet, but depending on how my response plays out, I’ll be done with that community, and I’ll just go back to that other site. The particular community is excellent both here and in R-world, so I won’t miss much by saying goodbye to it on Lemmy. I’ll be sad, though.

[-] eta@feddit.org 8 points 17 hours ago

Can you not recreate that same community on a different instance with the rules that you want?

[-] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 8 points 16 hours ago

Yeah you can, and if the community you made is better it will overshadow the worst

[-] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 15 hours ago

And even if it won't, there's still the benefit of some variety in communities so that people can choose.

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[-] c0dezer0@programming.dev 3 points 16 hours ago
[-] Kroko@feddit.online 2 points 15 hours ago

"Real world"

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[-] fakir@piefed.social 6 points 17 hours ago

I'd like to suggest removing timestamps on all comments, like you could still toggle a button to see the timestamp of a comment if you wanted to, but the timestamp shown on default doesn't serve any purpose other than tell the users how fresh or how stale the conversation is. When the conversation is say only a few hours old, many users will choose not to engage because we assume the conversation is over and there isn't any point in engaging further, so we skip altogether and move on. I can tell from my own experience I've done this more than a few times, I'm sure others have as well. When you only have a few thousand users across the world, unlike Reddit, we must preserve the freshness of the few conversations we do have so as to increase engagement from all.

[-] wjs018@piefed.social 8 points 16 hours ago

You are on PieFed, so you can always use a bit of custom css to make them go away. Pop this snippet into the custom css field of your user settings:

.comment_time {
    display: none;
}
[-] gigachad@piefed.social 6 points 17 hours ago

On the other side I don't want to engage in discussions that are over. The Threadiverse is organized in a wayz where new content is favored in your feed. Of course there are discussions that stretch over a couple of days, but after, they die. And I think this is just the way it works, it is not meant to show all posts ever made in an equal way.

[-] Microw@piefed.zip 5 points 14 hours ago

With the "active" sort, I regularly get posts on top of my feed that were originally made days or weeks ago, but still have discussions going on in the comments. I dont think thats a negative thing at all.

[-] fakir@piefed.social 1 points 16 hours ago

Right, they are not meant to show posts in equal manner - freshness & hotness do matter in engagement and are indeed shown higher compared to other posts and comments. But still, a few posts from last night might have only a couple of comments, but since it's already a few hours old, we don't reply or engage with it. We judge engagement by these timestamps and so removing timestamps will lift engagement on all posts & comments.

[-] gigachad@piefed.social 1 points 16 hours ago

I guess this also has to do with user amount in general. The more users are active in the Threadiverse, the more users would engage with these posts.

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[-] sparkles@piefed.zip 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Sometimes I feel like I talk too much. So I do limit myself.

[-] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 5 points 17 hours ago

I comment. Reminds me of how I'd end up playing medic in tfc/tf2- someone has to do it.

I don't post original stuff often, though.

[-] Kazel@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

fuck i'll lurk and smoke all day

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