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Maybe because we all want this to work out and be a thing.

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[-] Naja_Kaouthia@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

Lemmy is growing very, very quickly but I still feel like there’s more interaction between actual humans here and not some stupid karma farming bots. I came over here before the Reddit civil war started and there’s been more and more content every day without it feeling contrived. I’m quite fond of Lemmy at this point.

[-] Noumena@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

Content felt like it exploded just over the past couple of days. The coverage of world news events has been excellent. Memes have homes. It has been nice.

The breath of fresh air has generally been maturity in a lot of posts. Reddit felt like junior high deduction skills most of the time. I don't expect it to last, but it makes me engage more.

[-] Naja_Kaouthia@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

It really has. The first week or so was a bit discouraging but Lemmy has exploded recently. I’m extremely pleased that I can get my world news and my poop jokes in one place again. I scrubbed my Reddit comments and deleted my account much like Cortés burned his ships.

[-] ColoradoBump@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

Yes, I never felt like commenting when there were hundreds of previous comments. Here, with just a few comments, it feel like it an actual contribution, not a drop in the ocean. I also spend more time reading each comment.

[-] Gazumbo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yep same here. I'd usually browse 'all' on reddit and everything that could be said had already been said in the comments. So it kind of felt what's the point.

It's made me realise that I don't want Lemmy tobl become a reddit clone for this reason. If it gets too big it'll be the same issue.

[-] sporez@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I think this is a big part of it. On the other site you’d really have to be early on a popular post, otherwise there’d already be thousands of comments and it didn’t feel worth the effort.

[-] genoxidedev1@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

And even if a post has many comments on here you still get interaction because they sort by "Hot" by default (at least on kbin)

[-] Thrillhouse@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Lemmy feels like real people. Reddit was just overrun by bots and astroturfing. The more time I spend here the more I realize that.

[-] B20bob@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I do kinda feel like I'm commenting more on posts that I wouldn't have commented on over at reddit. Not sure why, probably has at least something to do with tje fact that I want to contribute to this place. I think it's also that people on here do seem to be more laid back and less confrontational over things that don't call for a confrontation. I like it here.

[-] balder1991@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Reddit is full of insecure people nowadays.

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[-] korny@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

It is a hard habit to break. I mostly lurked on reddit, a few comments here and there. Trying to engage and post a bit more than I would have previously.

[-] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I am averaging an unhealthy amount of comments per day, and I'm enjoying every moment.

I feel like I'm keeping a journal, only the book talks back to me in a thought provoking manner. You guys have been really great for me.

[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

There's more engagement here, you can comment late and have people talking with you.

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[-] BouncyFerret@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Very much yes. Now I can make relevant and helpful comments without 50 other people saying the same thing before I even saw the post. I feel like my contribution here matters.

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[-] AskThinkingTim@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Lemmy has made me realize that choosing communities (similar to subreddits) is important to me. I try not to search by /all and find information I am interested in. Having to join new communities again is not exactly a problem.

[-] jerrimu@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

It's a lot easier to find conversations here. Vibes like reddit of 5-10 years ago. When communities get too big, the most popular gets pretty boring for people with niche tastes.

[-] ewe@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah. Popular reddit posts from 4h or older...you're just shouting into the wind.

You still would get good conversations on smaller communities, but the popular subs it was mostly reading other people's witticisms that people would put on the post while it was in "new". Mostly those seemed to be karma whoring people who would try to get comment karma from saying something edgy or funny at the beginning of a post and then "benefit" when the post gets to r/all.

[-] fz3n@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

All communities get this way when they grow enough in size. There are only so many unique opinions to express on a subject, and a finite amount of interest someone will have to keep reading a thread. It essentially becomes a race to see who can express the idea first, and we have an easier time winning a race with fewer competitors.

[-] Cosmonaut_Collin@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I definitely feel more inclined to comment. Especially since so many posts have so little comments. It feels like my comments are more worthwhile to write to add to the discussion.

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[-] DharkStare@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I had a Reddit account for 10 years and never made a single post, but I actually made a post here so I'm definitely more active here. It'll probably end up being my only post as more users join Lemmy but I made the post primarily because I wanted more posts to hopefully encourage Lemmy growth.

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[-] scorpious@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Yes…please please please Apollo for this place. Clunky interface is my biggest impediment to using more.

[-] Rottcodd@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Absolutely.

Actually, I'm probably writing about the same number of replies. It's just that here I'm much more likely to actually post them.

On Reddit, I tended to write out replies, then visualize what was going to happen if I posted it - if I got any response at all, it was likely to just be a troll or a shill or a bot regurgitating some bit of emotive rhetoric or a tired meme. Then I'd just delete it instead of posting it.

Here, the only likely negative outcome is nothing at all. If somebody does respond, it's actually likely that it'll not only be a real person, but that they'll actually post real thoughts rather than just rhetoric and memes.

I had forgotten what that feels like.

[-] ArkyonVeil@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

In Reddit, your words are a drop in the deluge of the masses. Here, every comment, or even a humble upvote can make a difference.

[-] ProfessorChaos@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I need to become more active and lurk less.

[-] Clocker108@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I actually used reddit with no account, you know, there was clients allowed us to use reddit wtih subscribing without account. But here, in lemmy, I have an account and am much more active.

[-] kwot@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I'm more active here than I ever was there, and that's saying something since I haven't posted much here yet. Just having people here that act like... people helps so much.

[-] LollerCorleone@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I have made more posts since I joined kbin than I have in years of being in Reddit. The conversations here just seem more genuine.

[-] iRyu@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I heard a quote once that said "The cost of living in a good community is community service." I've been using that as my drive to interact with posts more here.

[-] leapingleopard@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

That's a great way of looking at things, and something to reflect on. It drove me to say that, lol.

[-] candyman337@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Definitely, I've been busy but I'd love to make more posts when I have more time, especially once apps start getting better for it. I'm a big fan of connect, but you can't save images yet which is a bummer

edit: you can download things now

[-] Izzy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Definitely, but I never really got into Reddit. Coincidently I had waited until just a couple months ago to try out Reddit and then Lemmy happened so no big loss for me.

[-] vtez44@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that's strange because Lemmy actually has less content than Reddit. I don't even lurk any subs I have subscribed, I just sort by new.

It's much better this way than Reddit for me, even though that.

[-] genoxidedev1@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I'm pretty sure I've commented more often (or at least in the ballpark) on here than in my whole time on Reddit

[-] Bluu@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

For sure. I can’t remember the last time I actually posted or commented on reddit. I would do that thing where sometimes I’d even start to type a reply and then just trash it before posting. Here, I actually feel like contributing.

[-] Usernameblankface@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, definitely. Between so many comments already replying what I was going to say and the high likelihood of being rudely corrected on anything I have to say, reddit is just less fun to interact with.

Over here, people are more likely to respectfully disagree, and it's less crowded, for now.

[-] MarvinKMooney@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I feel like there is more drive to interact because it's smaller, we want it to take off, and it feels like I am talking to real ppl and not a karma farming bot.

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[-] Ipodjockey@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah I'm sick of the sanitized sterile nature of corporate run social media. This platform has the ability to grow and change as the users want it to.

[-] Zardoz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I do post comments here more than reddit. Partly to help keep engagement up, but also because I haven't seen many shitheads trying to make me feel bad.

[-] oesezetao@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Definitely, I am sick of big tech CEO's greed.

[-] JackGreenEarth@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

@zephyr There's definitely a bias to the people more active who will comment here, but I feel I'm less active, which is a good thing, as Lemmy is less addictive.

[-] hydra@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

160+ posts already, I'm impressed. All of it in less than 2 weeks. Meanwhile on Reddit it was constantly walking on eggshells.

[-] TheCatfish@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The social anxiety is much less as the crowds are smaller so posting feels like it's being heard. Feels like I'm actually a part of a conversation

Edit: I forget which account is my main though so my comments are displaced. Which is probably good

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[-] Fondots@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I'm trying to be more active here largely because more people want want to join a site that seems like it's mostly dead with only a handful of posting/commenting.

I'm not really much of a content creator, and I'm hoping we quickly get enough active users that I can fall back to mostly lurking and chiming in when I have something to add.

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