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Should my character be 21-23?
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Might be focusing a bit too much into specific demographics here, work towards the message, impact, and readability first and foremost. That's where the audience draw should be, it's what will keep them reading. Sure, relatability with age can help draw some, but if you remove those small details then no impact should happen to the overall story.
Have you tried going for more of an indirect approach, say focusing on mannerisms, behavioral traits and the such to demonstrate a difference in age?
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