“I’m so grateful you’re in my life.“
Still makes me feel…. Just wonderful.
“I’m so grateful you’re in my life.“
Still makes me feel…. Just wonderful.
There's a story behind it that's not casual, so I'll kinda shorthand it.
But, I had a patient years and years ago that started out in a really bad state. It took months of working with her to make any progress for a ton of reasons.
But she was the very first person to call me their teddy bear.
Which wasn't really the nice part, it was the follow up.
I laughed it off and said I am/was pretty hairy.
And she said that it wasn't that, it was that she always felt safe and loved when I hugged her.
It was a pretty damn big deal to hear that. Again, for a ton of reasons that aren't casual, I needed to hear something like that at the time.
There's no better feedback than a patient you've made a difference to. If you only do one thing in life, you've done that
There's several that come to mind that stay with me:
"I love you"
"Thanks for saving my life, you're an angel"
"Your art is some of the best I've seen"
"You are beautiful"
Cool shirt dude
A co-worker once told me that I had the most unique metaphors they had ever heard.
"We highly respect your professionalism and we are very happy with you as part of our company and team" First time i really ever felt appreciated at work 🥹 👍
"You're amazing, don't change" from a coworker I really valued
I have gotten a compliment but I don't remember it as it was before I started living. (The birth was separate event) From the ones that I remember: "You are insightful" by my best friend.
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