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Discord was already succumbing to enshitification. Now with their intention to be owned by Wall Street, that trajectory will certainly accelerate at warp speed once the change of hands happens.

Anyone already get ahead of this and find a solid alternative?

Right now I'm on the fence between Element for Matrix, and Revolt. Both seem to have their pros and cons and I can't find a clear "winner".

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[-] stopforgettingit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 27 points 3 days ago

man I wish mumble had a better interface and a chat function, it could real FOSS competition with Discord, but the lack of a chat feature is holding it back

[-] BlessedDog@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Started hosting a mumble server for gaming maybe six months ago and have been using it daily. Really happy with it.

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It's so much easier to set up and install than Matrix.

[-] splendoruranium@infosec.pub 17 points 3 days ago

It’s so much easier to set up and install than Matrix.

Unbelievably so. Mumble is... basically one setup command. Don't even need a domain. And it needs absolutely no resources, can run on a Pi Zero.
Setting up my own Matrix server was honestly one of the most difficult things I've ever attempted in decades of non-professionally using computers and I'm still not sure I'd be able to properly take care of the installation if it breaks. Sooo many moving parts. All the federation-oriented projects that rely on adoption rates reaaaaally desperately need setup wizards before any other additional feature.

[-] thebardingreen@lemmy.starlightkel.xyz 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I've set up Lemmy, Forgejo, Nextcloud and Mastodon. Forgejo is unbelievably easy, Mastodon and Lemmy both are complex but if you follow the instructions you get there pretty quickly.

Matrix is like "Follow a book of documentation, then when it doesn't work anyway, spend hours of your life troubleshooting a bunch of stuff that's NOT in the documentation. Why is this so hard?"

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago

Sounds like this is part of their business plan. Make hosting it so onerous, you're better-off using their servers, or paying them to do it for you.

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[-] candyman337@sh.itjust.works 21 points 3 days ago

https://spacebar.chat/ looks like it will eventually be good, it looks like it's in its infancy right now though

[-] astro_ray@piefed.social 24 points 3 days ago

What are your thoughts on xmpp? Recently I have come to like a lot and am pretty active with friends there.

[-] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 22 points 3 days ago

There are people using xmpp? Last time I set up a server and tried using it with Pidgin, I couldn't find a soul that used it

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[-] Rhaxapopouetl@ttrpg.network 9 points 2 days ago

Alternatives to discord, open source or not:

https://alternativeto.net/software/discord-app/

[-] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 9 points 2 days ago
[-] farcaller@fstab.sh 9 points 2 days ago

Matrix is spectacularly cursed to the point of being unusable if you self-host it. The protocol is dumb enough to lock you out of rooms hosted on another server forever if anything goes wrong with the key rotation.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 days ago

Avoid Revolt as there moderation is questionable

[-] Ulrich@feddit.org 12 points 2 days ago

If you're self hosting, it's Revolt. But the default instance limits you to 20mb or something for files, which is a problem for me, personally.

[-] EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

Revolt is also an annoyance to self host and the apps don’t support self hosted instances without you rebuilding them because the server is hardcoded.

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Element/matrix all the way

if you want something that looks like discord there are themes for the clients, there's even commet.chat for a discord like experience (but they haven't added calls yet)

[-] TheSambassador@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

Calls and easily sharing my screen are 90% of my use cases for Discord. The entire appeal of it initially was that it was a more functional Ventrilo with both text and voice channels. Hopefully something FOSS gets further developed by the time Discord completely shits the bed.

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