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All I hear about is "boomers" this, "Millennials" that, "Gen Z" that, etc.

Why no one talk about Gen X? What happened to them? They just vanished like in Infinity War? Or are we mistaken Gen Z by Boomers?

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There is another theory I've heard that I like:

  1. The parents of the millenials were the boomers. The parents of gen z was gen X. Millenials and boomers are fairly equally disliked, and gen alpha seems to be shaping up to follow that trend.
  2. If you have been paying attention to legitimate complaints about each generation, you'll notice similarities between the kids and their parents. Both millenials and boomers get hate for being terrible parents and workaholics, and the hate gen z is currently getting for having no work ethic sounds very similar to the hate gen X got back when they were in their 20s for being supposedly lazy and stupid becuase of MTV.
  3. This implies that we are seeing not one pendulum of overractions to generational trauma, but two. The Millenials and the Baby Boomers, if you trace it back, descended from the humbly named Greatest Generation which fought in WWII and set the wheels of modern American culture into their current tracks. Gen Z and Gen X descend from the Silent Generation, who were best known for being conformist and pretty much nothing else.

Here's the conjecture part of the theory: the Boomer lineage has been taught that what matters is what you do and if you don't achieve you have no value, whereas the Silent Generation lineage has been taught that good people are good to their family and community and being a workaholic is bad for that. The poop-throwing you're seeing online is simply an expression of a conflict between opposing values.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 4 points 3 weeks ago

Both millenials and boomers get hate for being terrible parents and workaholics, and the hate gen z is currently getting for having no work ethic sounds very similar to the hate gen X got back when they were in their 20s for being supposedly lazy and stupid becuase of MTV.

Millennials were definitely called entitled and lazy.

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[-] eli@lemmings.world 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

For some reason, the internet has mistaken gen X for boomers with the "ok boomer" meme. Anyone over 40 is a boomer to the young. Completely unbeknownst to the fact that real baby boomers are literal senior home elderly people

[-] Putykat@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

Not really. 60 is the youngest boomer. People in their 60s are still on the workforce.

[-] deadcatbounce@reddthat.com 9 points 3 weeks ago

We're just waiting. See you soon.

[-] Azzu@lemm.ee 9 points 3 weeks ago

hear about

Something is only talked about if talking about it accomplishes something. Gen X doesn't raise any strong feelings with anyone, so they're not talked about. They're still there obviously.

The reason why is complex, and I'm no expert myself. However, from what I gathered about recent history, what seems most likely to me is that the time gen x'ers grew up in was very stable in the sense that economy was good, no major wars were happening, the cold war was "ending". So the only thing gen x'ers had to worry about was themselves. So they did. And you don't really need to talk about someone that just keeps to themself. They cause you no issues.

Another theory of mine is very simple: humanity changes over time. The larger the time, the larger the change. Differences between humans breeds conflict as their interests collide. Since boomers are the current oldest larger impactful generation, and gen z are the youngest, the difference between them are greatest. Thus the conflict between them is highest, thus there are a lot of people talking about those problems. I've been hearing less about millennials as well.

[-] DrunkenPirate@feddit.org 6 points 3 weeks ago

That is tbh a very US centric perspective. The decade Gen X grown up - youth in the 80ties and young adulthood in 90ties - is known for the break up of the Sovjetbloc. If that isn’t a big shake in life, I don’t know what else might have such an impact on lifestyle, thoughts, ownerships and behaviors.

The longtail effects had disruptions to other regions in the world with unrest and uprisings for independence.

And sure there have been conflicts as well. E.g. the North Ireland conflict with bombing in the UK. And there was the first nuclear disaster of Tschernobyl in 1986 causing angst in Europe.

But at all, I‘d say these days were characterized by a positive mood and the feeling that people can change things.

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[-] Pumafred9@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Probably still outside drinking water from the garden hose.

[-] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

We're here, frantically paddling to keep up.

[-] technomad@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 weeks ago

but you fuckers still got a boat though, even if it is leaking a little...

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[-] Marthirial@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

Never upgraded; decided to stay Gen-Twitter.

[-] Surp@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Gen x was busy voting trump to further fuck themselves 😂. Many of them did fine and own property. Millennials and Gen z are the ones that were fucked with a spiked dildo more so from the combined greed of Gen x and boomers. Many gen xers I know live by the philosophy that "my parents were that way and so am I" basically meaning they weren't brought up to think for themselves.

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[-] conicalscientist@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Nothing happened. The generational war another facet of culture war. It doesn't make sense because you have to ask what the fuck happened to Gen X? Why don't they fit into the picture? Why doesn't the data add up? That should tell you something. Your experiment is flawed. The culture war doesn't make sense.

[-] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 5 points 3 weeks ago

These whole rather arbitrary ages used are quite silly. Do you really think someone who is, for example, 45 will have a very different outlook than a 42 year old just because of the year they were born? There are decent people and wankers in every generation.

[-] limer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 weeks ago

Proper zodiac it is

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

Being a "late" Boomer, I see gen x having a lot of similarities with me. Running loose in the neighborhood, doing stupid shit that probably should have killed us, absent parents who just wanted us independent and out of their hair.

We remember old shit (music, phones, computers) transitioning into new shit. I think it's a spectrum Boomer->Gen x. A lot of similarities.

[-] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago

Man, it's always weird hearing this, because as a millenial this sounds exactly like my experience growing up.

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

It's a spectrum. Lots of parents in millennial days were doing the same s***, but I think it was more in a rural setting.

Back in Gen x and Boomer days this was suburbia.

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