468
:3c rule. (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 3 months ago by Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/196

all 39 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 78 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)
[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 28 points 3 months ago

nooooo that's the worst horny jail! the tops aren't there in the corner with us and nothing happens :(

[-] kittenzrulz123 12 points 3 months ago

Im pretty sure in the bottoms corner we mostly cuddle and meow at eachother :3

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 3 months ago
[-] Danitos@reddthat.com 10 points 3 months ago

In case you are serious: opposite of bottoms.

In gay relationships there's usually a bottom (passive) person and a top (active) person.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 3 months ago

i mean i'd say that's pretty standard for humanity in general, no? not really just a gay thing.

[-] Danitos@reddthat.com 4 points 3 months ago

Yeah, I guess so yeah. But in gay communities is veeery notorious, as 2 tops or 2 bottoms will be a big sexual incompatibility.

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago

Same for the Kink community as well

[-] princessnorah 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Needs to be noted:

Top =/= Dominant

Bottom =/= Submissive

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 3 months ago

Thanks for the explanation!

[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 months ago

Jokes on you, I tunneled out of the bottoms corner years ago! Now I can sneak into The Basement of Aggressive Tops whenever I want!I haven't been able to sit down since 2009!

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 5 points 3 months ago
[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 months ago

Hopefully about 7 inches and looking to take out some frustrations

[-] jaybone@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago

You’re making us straight people look uninformed.

[-] theneverfox@pawb.social 5 points 3 months ago

It's a legit problem... You have tops and bottoms in straight relationships too, it's not about parts or gender, it's about relationship dynamics

But we've partially tied it up with gender, which really fucks with all these people who don't understand why their sex lives suck, no matter how hard they try

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 3 months ago

The societal views on relationships are just so fucked in general, stuff like "dominant=top" "man=dominant" and "you can't have different preferences day-to-day", and of course "relationships can only be 2 people".

It's taken me several years of constant poking and prodding at my brain to figure out my preferences and it's complex enough that i'd double the length of this comment by explaining it.
But god damn it's nice to have it figured out; especially coming to terms with not actually being straight (and rejecting the concept of sexuality categories) has done wonders for my confidence, it's a solid foundation for my mental health.

It makes me very sad and angry that it's questionable if a significant amount of the population will ever reach this point, i wish we could launch a global project to help people with introspection and untangling themselves so they can have this inner peace.

[-] festnt@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 months ago

the stuff you wear on your torso

[-] sem 2 points 3 months ago
[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 2 points 3 months ago

I have never felt quite so seen

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 4 points 3 months ago

Why isn't he in the corner? /genq

[-] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 65 points 3 months ago
[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 51 points 3 months ago

:O C===3

:OC===3

:O==3

:O=3

:3

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 3 months ago

me inhaling a weirdly long chicken drumstick whole

[-] smitten 5 points 3 months ago

Username checks out

[-] headerfile 32 points 3 months ago

the resemblance is uncanny

[-] declaire 34 points 3 months ago
[-] Tiger_Man_ 5 points 3 months ago

Holy shit that's freeBSD reference

[-] magnetosphere@fedia.io 15 points 3 months ago

Thank you! I’ve wondered what the “c” was for.

[-] kittenzrulz123 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)
[-] smitten 12 points 3 months ago
[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 3 months ago

mischeivous proboscis monkey, with only the bulbous nose able to fit in the frame

[-] assassinatedbyCIA@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago
[-] Tiger_Man_ 2 points 3 months ago
[-] Emotional 2 points 3 months ago
[-] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 months ago
this post was submitted on 12 Jan 2025
468 points (100.0% liked)

196

17515 readers
193 users here now

Be sure to follow the rule before you head out.


Rule: You must post before you leave.



Other rules

Behavior rules:

Posting rules:

NSFW: NSFW content is permitted but it must be tagged and have content warnings. Anything that doesn't adhere to this will be removed. Content warnings should be added like: [penis], [explicit description of sex]. Non-sexualized breasts of any gender are not considered inappropriate and therefore do not need to be blurred/tagged.

If you have any questions, feel free to contact us on our matrix channel or email.

Other 196's:

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS