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:3c rule. (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
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[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 78 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 28 points 2 years ago

nooooo that's the worst horny jail! the tops aren't there in the corner with us and nothing happens :(

[-] kittenzrulz123 12 points 2 years ago

Im pretty sure in the bottoms corner we mostly cuddle and meow at eachother :3

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 2 years ago
[-] Danitos@reddthat.com 10 points 2 years ago

In case you are serious: opposite of bottoms.

In gay relationships there's usually a bottom (passive) person and a top (active) person.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 years ago

i mean i'd say that's pretty standard for humanity in general, no? not really just a gay thing.

[-] Danitos@reddthat.com 4 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I guess so yeah. But in gay communities is veeery notorious, as 2 tops or 2 bottoms will be a big sexual incompatibility.

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Same for the Kink community as well

[-] princessnorah 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Needs to be noted:

Top =/= Dominant

Bottom =/= Submissive

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 2 years ago

Thanks for the explanation!

[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 9 points 2 years ago

Jokes on you, I tunneled out of the bottoms corner years ago! Now I can sneak into The Basement of Aggressive Tops whenever I want!I haven't been able to sit down since 2009!

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 5 points 2 years ago
[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 9 points 2 years ago

Hopefully about 7 inches and looking to take out some frustrations

[-] jaybone@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

You’re making us straight people look uninformed.

[-] theneverfox@pawb.social 5 points 2 years ago

It's a legit problem... You have tops and bottoms in straight relationships too, it's not about parts or gender, it's about relationship dynamics

But we've partially tied it up with gender, which really fucks with all these people who don't understand why their sex lives suck, no matter how hard they try

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 years ago

The societal views on relationships are just so fucked in general, stuff like "dominant=top" "man=dominant" and "you can't have different preferences day-to-day", and of course "relationships can only be 2 people".

It's taken me several years of constant poking and prodding at my brain to figure out my preferences and it's complex enough that i'd double the length of this comment by explaining it.
But god damn it's nice to have it figured out; especially coming to terms with not actually being straight (and rejecting the concept of sexuality categories) has done wonders for my confidence, it's a solid foundation for my mental health.

It makes me very sad and angry that it's questionable if a significant amount of the population will ever reach this point, i wish we could launch a global project to help people with introspection and untangling themselves so they can have this inner peace.

[-] festnt@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 years ago

the stuff you wear on your torso

[-] sem 2 points 2 years ago
[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 years ago

I have never felt quite so seen

[-] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 4 points 2 years ago

Why isn't he in the corner? /genq

[-] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 65 points 2 years ago
[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 51 points 2 years ago

:O C===3

:OC===3

:O==3

:O=3

:3

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 2 years ago

me inhaling a weirdly long chicken drumstick whole

[-] smitten 5 points 2 years ago

Username checks out

[-] headerfile 32 points 2 years ago

the resemblance is uncanny

[-] declaire 34 points 2 years ago
[-] Tiger_Man_ 5 points 2 years ago

Holy shit that's freeBSD reference

[-] magnetosphere@fedia.io 15 points 2 years ago

Thank you! I’ve wondered what the “c” was for.

[-] kittenzrulz123 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[-] smitten 12 points 2 years ago
[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 2 years ago

mischeivous proboscis monkey, with only the bulbous nose able to fit in the frame

[-] assassinatedbyCIA@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago
[-] Tiger_Man_ 2 points 2 years ago
[-] Emotional 2 points 2 years ago
[-] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 years ago
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