Some people say that real men don't have feelings

We have feelings (we have feelings)

Some people say that we are not real men

(We're real men)

That hurts our feelings

(Hurts our feelings when you say we're not real men)

Some people say that real men are invincible

(We're vincible) we're vincible

I like to have a cry every so often, like if I'm starting to feel overwhelmed easy and constantly, I'll go watch one my insta cry shows or movies.

One that works really well and lets me cry but over a more uplifting way mostly, is Ricky Gervais show Derek, I ugly cry so damn much in that show and afterwards I come out feeling great.

I used to hide it, but now I'll tell anyone, I don't care anymore, I'm nice, I'm caring and helpful, I'm a good person who uses crying as a form of self therapy, you're the negative one belittling me over a childish viewpoint that makes you feel uneasy because you lack the ability to actually express your emotions, so others shouldn't either.

I feel like another level of lack of self awareness is going into the comments and finding that actually it's the patriarchies fault.

Like wow thanks its so helpful to know that this isn't my fault "a man" it's men's fault (you being a man remember).

Plenty of examples out there, also see the "woman vs tree" simile.

It's ok to cry about sad life experiences... But not about xitter.