Fairbuds.

That's the current best Bluetooth ear buds with user replaceable batteries that can be found at your budget. But they'll be used.

Beyond that, check out ifixit for their repairability reviews. But you won't be paying 150 for anything else, even used. Lowest I've seen fairbuds go for is about a hundred, and they were in good shape. Lowest I've seen the repairable Sonys reach is about 200, used. And don't ask about the bang & olufsen set, which is pretty much the best out there overall that's repairable, though I'd have to look up that model.

With true wireless buds, you either pay for crap that's useless when the battery fails (unless you're seriously skilled with rebuilding such things), or you pay out the nose for stuff you can keep going. What really sucks is that the prices on the better ones that you can't repair aren't even lower than the repairable options.

Having seen people go through high priced buds in a year or two and then the buds essentially die because they won't hold a charge, there's no way in hell I'd ever spend more than about thirty on a set that I can't swap them out without soldering. But you gotta pay up for the ones worth having, or be patient and be willing to buy used. Sometimes you can run across refurbished buds from repairable models as well, and they tend to hit about 3/4 of the original price.

I just bought a set of Cambridge Audio Melomania M100 for $120, fantastic all around earbuds, but the best feature is that the voice (for when it's pairing and whatnot) can be set to the actual voice of Matt Berry, which is perfect for any fans of The IT Crowd or What We Do in the Shadows.

Fairphone is making easy to repair earbuds just under $150. You should probably have a look at them of you want a pair of earbuds that last.

I've been using the PineBud Pros for a while now and have liked them a lot. They've lasted longer than the airpod pros I had beforehand and the noise cancellation isn't perfectly silent or anything but it's definitely good enough for what I want noise cancellation for. They don't have wireless charging out of the box but there is technically a community project that adds it if you have the skill set to take them apart and modify the case/PCB, but that's obviously a lot of work lol. They also sell individual replacement earbuds and the case if one breaks which is a plus. Pine64 is a pretty cool company too, all of their stuff is pretty community driven and sold with very little markup, and since it all runs open source firmware they'll keep getting updates for a long time most likely (not really applicable to the earbuds unless you manually update them, but still).

Can't say enough good things about the Soundcore Liberty 4 NCs I've got (Anker). Sound good, good ANC, good fit, decent battery life.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DB2DSVWF

I bought those 6 months ago, so I can't say they're "for life" but I really like them, and they've held up well so far. Looks like the ivory colored ones are the only ones listed now, but the ones I got were black / black case.

I won't ever spend more than $60 on a set of headphones because they either get lost/broken/etc.

I have Jabra Elite 4 Actives and they have been great to me and meet your requirements. I would look at the newer offerings in that line and consider them as well.

The earphone community here recommended earfun to me. A couple years ago I picked up a pair of Air Pro buds, about $80. They've been great.

https://www.myearfun.com/eu

I picked up a pair of xiaomi redmi buds 5. They're like 30 bucks, and they meet all your requirements! They have an app, but it's only a requirement if you want to custom configure the noise-cancelling, voice passthrough, etc etc. They just plain work over bluetooth without an app. The tips are silicon rubber and it comes with 3 sizes, so they're replacable