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submitted 2 years ago by Ocelot@lemmies.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I'm talking specifically about obeying the speed limit, doing a full stop at stop signs, etc. After receiving a speeding ticket for doing 53 in a 50, As an experiment I went a full day obeying all traffic laws 100% and it caused so much road rage. For example, there is a 2 lane road near me with a speed limit of 50 (where I got the ticket), traffic usually moves at about 60/65. There was a huge line of cars behind me and nowhere to pull over. As soon as an opening came up on the shoulder I was about to pull over and one of the cars behind me blew past me on the on the right blaring their horn. Then another truck passed me at the next opportunity and brake checked me. Both of these cars proceeded to run a red light about 1/4 mile ahead of me endangering others. By far the worst part of driving on this 2 lane road was the 25 mph work zone which is completely ignored by everyone else. It effectively resulted in me doing 25 mph in a "60" which is very dangerous.

Having needed to spend the entire day pulling over at every opportunity to let people pass I inevitably picked up a drill bit and got a flat tire.

Even matters as simple as stopping completely at a stop sign for 1 second cause immediate anger and dangerous behavior from other drivers.

What on earth are we expected to do? All I want is to avoid speeding tickets and drive safely.

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[-] unwinagainstable@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Getting a speeding ticket while going 3 miles over the speed limit sucks so I can see why you’re upset.

I’ve never had a problem just going with the flow of traffic. Sometimes almost everyone is going over the speed limit. I go with that. I’ve lived in Minnesota most of my life. I’m more comfortable than most driving in snow and ice. Sometimes in snowy conditions the flow of traffic seems slower than necessary. Yet, again, I just go with the traffic flow and end up driving a bit slower than I would otherwise. If there’s little to no traffic I just go the speed limit. If someone wants in my lane I let them in whenever possible.

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[-] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

The last ticket I got was from parking within 15 feet of a fire hydrant. There's no sign or marker indicating where 15 feet is, so I had to basically eyeball it and hope that I was far enough from the hydrant. Yeah, that's one that's almost impossible to practically obey.

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[-] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 7 points 2 years ago

I'm going to remember this question next time I see one of those "BuT cYcLIsTs!" idiots.

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[-] argv_minus_one@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

What on earth are we expected to do?

Pay the fines. It's a money-making scheme, not a public-safety scheme.

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[-] Pandantic@midwest.social 6 points 2 years ago

I can’t believe you got a ticket for speeding 53 in a 50! What state do you live in that police are that eager to give a ticket? Cops will only be that strict where I live in 25mph zones, usually school zones or a place where the highway goes through the middle of town.

They say something around here like: +8, you’re great. +9, you’re mine. And that is actually pretty low for how much I’ve seen people speed here (+15 sometimes, even on 2-lane highways like you’re talking about). I got ticketed for a +13.

[-] Ocelot@lemmies.world 5 points 2 years ago

In california, near an upscale/wealthy neighborhood with otherwise low crime. Its how the police department stays well funded I'm sure.

We call that a speed trap. Its kind of a cost of doing business. You should continue driving like normal people do.

[-] Pandantic@midwest.social 5 points 2 years ago

Sounds like it. You could fight it if you have the time and will. Most likely (though take this with a grain of salt because I’m in the Midwest which is clearly different), the officer won’t see it as worth his time to go to the court hearing, especially if the fine is low.

[-] Ocelot@lemmies.world 4 points 2 years ago

Yeah it feels like the fine is just high enough to justify them making money from the stop, but just low enough that it doesn't seem like its worth my time/effort to fight it.

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[-] Coreidan@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

It’s damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Welcome to the real world.

[-] AngrilyEatingMuffins@kbin.social 6 points 2 years ago

I was going ten to fifteen over in the right lane on a major street and I literally felt fear for my life the way people around me were driving. People were raging at me for not running red lights! It was insane.

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[-] andthenthreemore@startrek.website 5 points 2 years ago

Just ignore them. If they want to be idiots, let them. Doesn't mean you have to as well.

[-] Ziggurat@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 years ago

It's been like 20 years that, at least where I am there is automatic speed camera and a zero tolerance policy, people get fine and loose points even for small speeding so if you want to keep your licence, no choice

Not stopping at a stop? This looks dangerous like hell. Please think about the kid on a bike who might have the right of way, let her live

[-] Ocelot@lemmies.world 5 points 2 years ago

Im talking about “rolling stops” like everyone does. Slow down to 0.5mph and look both ways before continuing.

[-] kratoz29@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

Have you tried following traffic laws in GTA games? That is insane indeed.

[-] BirdyBoogleBop@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 years ago

Where do you live? I do the speed limit all the time. Only get a random pissy BMW once a month or so.

[-] HRYDJPCHNMNDGBLTFIYA@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

I also follow traffic laws. People often rage at me completely unprovoked, and I've been in more collisions than I can count.

What matters is you are not responsible for the actions of others. Yes driving 60 in a 25 is incredibly dangerous. See what happens when you slam on the brakes for the work zone sign, it's absurd.

But it's not our job to police that. The best we can do is follow the law, try to avoid the idiots, and collect the insurance money when they do hit us and move on.

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