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[-] Akasazh@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I was born in Victorian Britain and have a very mirthful air about me.

So one day I was going about my merry business, being my jovial self.

When I'm walked a creature that saw what I was about, smoked at me and said 'well aren't you the gayest person I've met all day'.

I'm not sure how to feel tbh

[-] eric@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

Drink from a straw. Wear shorts.

[-] shasta@lemm.ee 20 points 4 days ago

Wearing an earring in your right ear, but it's ok to wear it in the left... Or the other way around. I could never remember which.

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[-] gerryflap@feddit.nl 49 points 4 days ago

I've had a colleague say that tea is "homo water". I'm aro/ace, but most of my colleagues don't know that. Similarly a straight colleague of mine got mocked for wearing pink (but not feminine) shoes. After some of these incidents we've kinda started pushing back against this nonsense by deliberately triggering these people and calling them out, which has worked so far.

[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

To anyone who thinks tea isn't for cishet men I have four words:

Tea. Earl Grey. Hot.

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[-] InAbsentia@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

It's a tie between licking ice cream and saying something is adorable.

[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago
  • Wear orange or pink.
  • Eat quiche
  • Like poetry
  • Hang out with girls at recess
  • Wear an earring
  • Owning Laurie Anderson or Philip Glass CDs
[-] Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Orange? Wait until Dutch football fans hear that. Would make NL during a Euro Cup or World Cup an absolutely ✨ fabulous ✨place xD

[-] Entropywins@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

Quiche is amazing. Who doesn't like eggs and ham/bacon? Hanging out with gurls, well yeah nothing straight about that...

[-] Nojustice@lemmy.ml 68 points 5 days ago

Washing your asshole... Seriously dudes, wash it anyway

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[-] dantheclamman@lemmy.world 36 points 4 days ago

I remember kids telling me I was crossing my legs in a gay way. I asked them who said so, and they said their teacher. That was the first time I realized some bullies grow up to be teachers.

[-] tasankovasara@sopuli.xyz 17 points 4 days ago

According to my dad, considering something as 'lovely'. Even if it's the exhaust note of a motorcycle.

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[-] fullstopslash@lemmy.ml 28 points 4 days ago
[-] BartyDeCanter@lemmy.sdf.org 171 points 5 days ago

Pull through parking. You know, where there are two spaces so you drive through one into the next so you can pull out of the one you park in without having to back up? I got told that was for “girls and gays”.

[-] tetrachromacy@lemmy.world 116 points 5 days ago

If pulling forward into an empty parking space in front of your car is gay, then I guess you'd better start calling me Elton John. What the actual fuck?

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[-] brandon@lemmy.ml 156 points 5 days ago

I once got called the f-slur for having the audacity to read a book in public, outdoors in front of the library.

[-] funkajunk@lemm.ee 75 points 5 days ago

It's okay, you can say "fatty" here.

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[-] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 10 points 3 days ago
[-] BlueLineBae@midwest.social 158 points 5 days ago

One story my husband shared with me was when he and my dad stopped into a local bar after working hard on home renovations all day. They planned to get some dinner and have some beer after a hard day's work but needed to wash their very dirty hands first. So they went back into the bathroom and washed their hands. Well apparently that was too "gay" for the owner of the bar and they went over to the bathroom and started saying things like "I don't know what you think you're doing in there" and "I just need to make sure you're not doing anything funny". So they ended up just leaving while the guy yelled at them saying they had to buy something.

A slightly different version of this concept also happened to my husband. At one point, 2 of our lady friends were talking about fashion and my husband, who is MUCH more fashionable than I am, chimed in. They proceeded to tell him that he's "not allowed to have an opinion because he's a man" which is the most double standard bullshit I've ever heard come out of any of my friends mouths. It's stuck with me for a long time now because I think it keeps me honest with myself about standards and reminds me to think about how opinions change when you flip genders.

[-] TheImpressiveX@lemmy.ml 132 points 5 days ago

They planned to get some dinner and have some beer after a hard day's work but needed to wash their very dirty hands first. So they went back into the bathroom and washed their hands. Well apparently that was too "gay" for the owner of the bar and they went over to the bathroom and started saying things like "I don't know what you think you're doing in there" and "I just need to make sure you're not doing anything funny".

Fellas, is it gay to practice basic personal hygiene?

[-] WadeTheWizard@fedia.io 72 points 5 days ago

Washing your hands implies you touched your penis and touching penises is gay.

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[-] jrubal1462@mander.xyz 30 points 4 days ago

Around 2010ish I was thoroughly enjoying some Bells Two Hearted and other IPAs. My brother (2 years older) tried arguing that bud light is man's beer, and my beers were fruity and girly. It certainly doesn't matter to me, but the irony of choosing bud light, out of all the macro beers, is just 👨‍🍳😘>

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[-] SeaJ@lemm.ee 128 points 5 days ago

I grew up in the 90s so just existing would cause people to call you gay.

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[-] BreadOven@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

Sucking dick.

[-] candle_lighter@lemmy.ml 13 points 4 days ago
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[-] promitheas@programming.dev 44 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Use chapstick

Read a book in public

Not go to gym

Play certain more "feminine" games

Those off the top of my head. I live in a nation of backwards idiots, so there for sure are more

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eat a chicken sandwich. Apparently straight men have to eat burgers.

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[-] superkret@feddit.org 105 points 5 days ago

I was told I'm gay because I like knitting.
I mean, yes I'm gay, but not because of that.

[-] grue@lemmy.world 60 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Knitting is a form of computing and computing is women's work. So yeah, super gay, just like all the other programmers. ^/s^

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These are all example from decades ago growing up in the 90’s.

I was called gay for not liking soccer, like it’s gay to not watch men chase a ball in shorts.

I was called gay for wearing UGG boots as a dude. Like if we even want to accept gay as an insult, I would argue the person bothered by such things as what shoes one is wearing is more fitting of an insult.

Fun fact. When I had a house mate who was gay, it was very difficult not to use gay as a word for something that wasn’t fun. Like this show is gay. He didn’t mind, but still wanted to stop.

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[-] Michal@programming.dev 12 points 4 days ago
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[-] aimizo@lemmy.world 27 points 4 days ago

As a kid I was told if you eat scrambled eggs for dinner you are gay. It affected me longer than I care to admit.

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[-] Nath@aussie.zone 59 points 5 days ago

Dance. In a troupe full of girls. Honestly, it was me and 15-20 girls.

Other boys literally called me gay for dancing, while they went and played whatever sports they did and then all went into a locker room and showered together etc.

I honestly never understood how they thought dance was gay. I don't understand it now.

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[-] fakeman_pretendname@feddit.uk 60 points 5 days ago

In the 1990s in the UK, it was gay to wear a backpack using both shoulder straps (as opposed to using one strap over one shoulder, which was the heterosexual way to carry things to school).

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[-] Marin_Rider@aussie.zone 16 points 4 days ago

when I finished high school and was talking with friends about going to uni, a few of us were talking a out renting a place together when we got into uni to be close (instead of 2 hours away like we were). another friend we should never do that because people would think we are gay. obligatory he is a Christian fundamentalist who is highly likely gay himself

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[-] Soapbox1858@lemm.ee 41 points 5 days ago

Playing tennis.

In jr high I had some friends who played football say my other friends and I on the tennis team were gay for playing tennis.

I had to point out to them that the tennis team was co-ed and we regularly made out with our female teammates on the long bus rides to tournaments.

While those on the football team were constantly manhandling each other, showering together and slapping each other on the ass to say "good game." But the tennis team are the gay ones?

They got mad, but dropped it.

[-] M600@lemmy.world 49 points 5 days ago

Once I was at a hotel bar with colleagues and we were hanging out in some lounge area. The waitress asked if we wanted drinks, so I ordered a margarita.

Then they made fun of me for it. Like, what the hell does it matter what drink I have.

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[-] HatchetHaro 47 points 5 days ago

okay, i'm gay, but this is still relevant.

my dad (who i haven't come out to yet) thinks colourful underwear is gay, and those are his remarks to seeing that i've packed both red and blue undies while we were on vacation last year.

like bro they're just colours.

[-] azvasKvklenko@sh.itjust.works 41 points 5 days ago

When you’ll finally go outta closet he’ll be like: told ya, knew that from the start cuz of the gay underwear xD

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[-] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 85 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Making quiche for brunch. Apparently an omelet is fine, but a scrambled omelette is gay.

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[-] AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee 34 points 5 days ago

Hugging friends. Or any sort of physical contact that isn't with a woman.

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[-] GrappleHat@lemmy.ml 9 points 4 days ago

Putting a wig on my best friend and spooning him while he's asleep.

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[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 80 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Stand in awe at a replica of Michaelangelo’s David.

Admittedly staring at a statue of a naked guy, but come on

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[-] GraniteM@lemmy.world 36 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

One time in high school, I heard somebody yell "Steve, you [bundle of sticks], stop talking to your girlfriend and let's go!" and Steve was in fact at the time talking to his girlfriend.

The sheer concentration of cognitive dissonance has stuck with me to this day.

[-] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 41 points 5 days ago

Fag evolved into something completely different in the '00s, and was seldomly used to imply homosexuality. I don't know how it happened, exactly, but it was seemingly repurposed to mean loser/douchebag, just as gay was used to express something being lame. This didn't stop the words from being offensive, but it was still an interesting change of definition. Obviously they've since reverted.

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[-] lickmygiggle@lemmy.world 18 points 4 days ago

All of the comments here are reminding me of how life was 20 years ago and also before I was married with kids.

I genuinely don’t fucking care how feminine somebody thinks something I’m doing is if I’m comfortable or enjoying myself. I’ll drink pink drinks all day if it fucking tastes good LMLML bro.

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[-] prex@aussie.zone 70 points 5 days ago
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[-] MJKee9@lemmy.world 30 points 5 days ago

Handing out homemade candy in one of my upper level college courses.

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[-] KAYDUBELL@lemmy.world 20 points 4 days ago

In jr. high i was called gay because I dressed semi decent. Jeans with a t-shirt a blazer was apparently too much for them lol

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