I'm a cunt and i blame it on men.

"... in a way that makes them ~~desirable as~~ actual adults."

FTFY.

I am not interested in being desirable to women. Many women need to get over that some men don't consider hanging out with women their obstacle in life.

what good ever comes from being desirable to women?

Huh, so in essence boys and girls are raised to the same outcome.

Sucks that your type has this character.

As a cis male, I find this post to be so true. And you're never done trying to unfold this socialization.

I believe in women's rights and equity and equality for all types of people. That said, I found someone who makes my life interesting. Unfortunately my life is interesting in the wrong ways like half the time. It's aging me and I will die and early death. But that's at least an interesting life. Otherwise she doesn't do shit. No Job, no dishes, nothing. The only and most Important things she does is to teach the kids, do their workbooks together and pay the various bills. That's stuff I can't ever do because I go to work. While I'm happy that she does those things, I think she better find a job after the kids become more independent. That has literally been her excuse for not having a job for the past 15 years. So when the kids are finally doing well in school on their own, I will nag her like she nags me to get the garbage out. I will nag her to go get a job. That's my plan and I'm sticking to it because hey, she should be doing something desirable right? LOL. They cut her stomach up to get our babies out. That's probably the next excuse, a pretty good one, until I have my last breath. And to that I say: "Whatever babe, let me watch my show".