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submitted 2 years ago by QuietStorm@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

So i still have depression and im constantly bored, i feel like a loser who cant do anything right. I want to let my creativeness out, make something i can share with the world or family, but im probably dreaming too big. I cant stand being depressed and bored, it stinks, everyone tells me to work out but i lack the motivation to do so.

i usually just watch youtube all day while complaining to family members that have no idea what to do about me.

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[-] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 2 years ago

I play a video game (usually a retro one) on a low difficulty level. Then beat the computer over and over again. Bonus points if it’s a game I usually avoid because it’s too hard.

Gives a constant feeling of satisfaction at beating the computer over and over.

[-] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Sports outdoors with other people

[-] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Whenever I feel this way, which is often, I tinker with my homelab or play music. Oftentimes I don't feel to motivation to, but I know once I start I'll get sucked right in.

[-] taiyang@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Wow, you're being bombarded with good suggestions. Although I'd like to add an ingredient that helped me with my constant boredom; if you are going to go exploring or hiking, I found going outside to be incredibly dull personally unless I kept my mind occupied.

For me, that was creative writing brainstorming (plot, character development, etc) almost like organized daydreaming. I'd write it all down when I got home. Although I never did make the game given time constants, I had fun thinking of worlds of my own design.

[-] renrenPDX@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Right now I’m trying chess. I absolutely suck at it, but I can play it on demand at any time online and getting better at it. Don’t really play against live opponents often, but rather play bots or solve puzzles mostly. It helps get the mind to think about something else and makes me want to learn due to how bad I was initially. Still bad, just less so.

[-] Cralder@feddit.nu 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

but im probably dreaming too big

No you're not. You underestimate yourself. There is not "too big" when it comes to having a hobby. You don't need to prove anything, just do something you enjoy and that makes you feel good about yourself. The difficult part is getting out of the house, not the actual activity. I won't recommend anything specific here because lots of people in this thread have already, and also the activity does not really matter, only that you do something that engages you.

[-] a4ng3l@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Fishing. It’s outside, you get to meet interesting persons, there is a collection side in it and you can reach modest goals which is doing a lot of good.

[-] minorsecond@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

I’ve thrown myself into competitive powerlifting and my bipolar disorder has been stable for like three years. The exercise can be tough but it really levels me out.

[-] Haggunenons@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Juggle. You must have 3 similar ball shaped items around the house. There's lots of tutorials online. You get your blood feeling, body moving. Such a nice rush when you finally get that new pattern or trick you were working on.

[-] Roll_4Initiative@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

Whittling is also a good one, low investment and relatively simple.

[-] 20watts@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Drawing of course 😁! I think it would help to get your emotions out.

[-] sloppy_diffuser@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Buy an older house. Attempt to maintain said house to keep a roof over your head.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago

Ughhh... This is one thing that's contributing to my depression... Old "fixer-uppers" that are like a glorified shed in a flood zone, in the worst neighborhoods are going for $300k+... So I'm stuck living in a garage paying someone else's mortgage in rent prices.

[-] PeWu@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I'm positively surprised that I've not seen gym suggestion within 10 comments.

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