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submitted 6 months ago by caiman@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I've been doing this for some time now. Even if it's something that I consider important.

I just don't see the value in participating in a discussion that I have seen countless times already where the same points and arguments happen over and over again. One that I know wilI turn ugly. It's exhausting and I've decided to just opt-out.

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[-] whygohomie@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

Yes because there are certain areas where paid actors, including bots, overwhelm any organic discussion. I have discussions about stuff like that in private chats with people I actually know.

[-] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 3 points 6 months ago

The block button works for me

[-] Atomic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 months ago

All the time.

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

Yeah, there's plenty of topics I avoid discussing on the internet. I'm not here for an argument.

[-] mPony@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

it's been 8 hours and there's no reference to the Monty Python "argument sketch". That's refreshing.

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

No it isn't.

[-] Sombyr@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 months ago

Yeah, and the worst is when people are talking about something I know a lot about, getting virtually every detail wrong, and I have to resist saying anything because I know my input will either be ignored, or worse, straight up unwelcome.
Luckily the blessing of being dumb as bricks is that that doesn't happen a lot, but I sure hate when it does.

[-] Boozilla@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

I have done this from time to time. Need to go back to it. There's too many Dwight Schrutes online. Thanks for the wisdom. OP.

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[-] GluWu@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago

I was typing something, was going to just delete. So yeah

[-] Bruncvik@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

I don't mind discussing politics or religion, even though I don't repeat myself in the same discussion and don't engage with trolls. However, I absolutely never discuss my family, my personal matters and my racist views.

[-] Nacktmull@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I certainly do. Every internet community is a bubble and I do not appreciate getting into fights with a brigade of people who hate me just for having an opinion that does not align with their dogma.

[-] acetanilide@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Yeah. On my personal pages I either unfollowed or deleted so many people so I don't have to deal with it. On places like lemmy it's not worth the energy.

Sometimes I can't help myself though. I was taught to stand up for myself and for other people as well so it's hard for me to sit back on certain conversations. Somehow this week I actually changed someone's mind (Not on lemmy). It's confusing when that happens lol

[-] deaf_fish@lemm.ee 1 points 6 months ago

Maybe try a more formal debate setting? I know there are some places like "the crucible" that facilitate that.

I doubt you will find anything on Lemmy unless you start up a highly moderated community. Even then, people can bring questions against the moderators.

Discussion and debate are pretty lawless in nature.

[-] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 1 points 6 months ago

Several I never comment on or engage with, several I comment on and very few topics I engage with.

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