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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by ada to c/196

This community is housed on an instance run by two trans women, focused on the needs of the queer and gender diverse community.

We allowed 196 here because we were promised the community is queer and trans inclusive.

If you're here it's because you're aggressively supportive of trans folk. Not middle of the ground, not "just asking questions".

If your response to that is, "yes, but..." then this isn't the instance for you, and by extension, this isn't the community for you.

tl;dr - Unambiguous support and inclusion, or fuck off somewhere else.

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Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to "unambiguous support", as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

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[-] Bloodwoodsrisen@lemmy.tf 39 points 1 year ago

As an Asexual Gender-Fluid person with trans friends, I fully support this

[-] mbryson@lemmy.ca 39 points 1 year ago

Based.

Thank you for creating a safe space. I'm an ally to the LGBTQ+ community and am happy there's a space not for "everyone", but for those willing to accept trans folk and silence those against them (while having funny posts on it as well).

[-] EremesZorn@beehaw.org 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm here because 196 shows up on my feed and I really enjoy the memes.
I also have absolutely no problem with trans individuals or really any lifestyle anyone wants to live that isn't hurting anyone else.
That said, was there an incident recently on here that spurred the creation of this post? Did something go down?
Edit: Changed "bothering" to "hurting" because I frankly don't give a fuck about the feelings of the type of people that are "bothered" by LGBT+.

[-] LeylaaLovee 36 points 1 year ago

Someone made a comment saying that they'd be down to fuck a trans man if they hadn't transitioned yet because he likes women. It was controversial, but then one of the mods here decided to post a screenshot of that comment on the main, and the people in the comments were fucking horrendous. It's all "I'm an ally, but..." statements. Some of them were fine, but even the best ones were just people taking the opportunity to say that they don't wanna fuck trans people. And that's fine, you don't have to be attracted to trans people at all, but a trans safe space isn't the spot for that discussion at all.

The mod shouldn't have posted what's essentially bait, nor should they have not actually moderated the thread after posting the bait. I'm pretty sure the instance admin ended up having to handle it. The guy who made the original comment is saying it was him, but that's not really what matters. This controversy was more about properly moderating the space than anything.

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[-] Arystique@beehaw.org 35 points 1 year ago

Heck yeah! Fuck Transphobia!

[-] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 35 points 1 year ago

Damn straight. Us queers need to stand together and there can be no god damn LGBTQ+ without the flippin T.

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[-] Catasaur@lemmy.catasaur.xyz 33 points 1 year ago

I loved the original 196 and how supportive it was for LGBTQ+ people. Also because it was hilarious. Keep rockin

[-] LeylaaLovee 31 points 1 year ago

Thank God. THAT post earlier was shocking me.

[-] pancakes@sh.itjust.works 30 points 1 year ago

Trans rights!

I'm more of a casual user so I haven't seen the transphobia here but fuck transphobes and you should all have a place to feel safe.

[-] featured@lemmy.ml 30 points 1 year ago

TRANS RIGHTS!!! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

[-] boot@lemmy.loungerat.io 30 points 1 year ago

TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 30 points 1 year ago

Trans rights are human rights. Trans people's existence doesn't get to be dictated on other's whims, or have their validity be aproved by other's checklists. Trans people get to live and be respected. Dismissing someone's right to live that literally is just trying to exist peacfully just because you don't feel like treating them as a human being says everything. I want to have trans people feel safe in their environments,whichever that is (online or irl), and we can't achieve that unless we're vocal, straightfoward and fierce in our activism for trans rights. Because trans rights are human rights. Thank you for being here and being a part of this community.

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[-] growsomethinggood@kbin.social 29 points 1 year ago

Trans rights! Y'all deserve aggressive support!

[-] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 year ago

Oh cool, I was getting kind of uncomfortable with how things were going, this sounds just right.

[-] ssfckdt@mastodon.cloud 27 points 1 year ago

As far as I know the original subreddit this com came from was very trans, to the point where I, as a cis straight ally, was nervous that I was somehow not supposed to be in it. And I'm pretty sure I wasn't the only one.

So I'm witchu

I must have good filters or something, because I don't think I've noticed any TP / TERFing in here. Sad.

(of course i follow from a mastodon account so i probably miss a lot of stuff)

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[-] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 year ago

You have my full support.
As a.. whatever the hell I am.. I support everyone to be who they want to be. No exceptions.

[-] onichama@feddit.de 25 points 1 year ago

TRANS RIGHTS FUCK YEAH 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

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