Because Lemmy is Free, as in Libre and as in free beer, it is open source, and on top of all that, it's not run for-profit by a single large corporate entity, it's decentralised structure precludes that by design.

There is nothing actually wrong with websites or forums like this or "social media", not anymore than there is anything wrong with atoms even if humans found a way to make a weapon of it.

In this case technology is weaponized by capitalism, and they'll do anything to make you think it's anything but the corporations who are to blame, misinformation on top of misinformation.

The "mental health effects" of social media or smartphones are all just corporate distractions from the fact all those are really effects of capitalism. Even cryptocurrency isn't actually bad inherently, I use monero all the time, it's a great idea actually, especially where power consumption is addressed, but capitalism made it a speculative assets and state backed players wrestle for control. AI too. Open source LLMs benefit everyone, but the lack of tech literacy turned progressives against it and the played right into OpenAI and the rest of those scumbags' hands.

The fact that those who aren't immersed in tech don't know this is why all is lost. For the common man - they won, and it's all black box products made to exploit people to the last drop.

I have two these days, one Google™️ Pixel™️ for all government and job bullshit, and one crappy old riced to hell and back Sony for everything else. No Google play, no SIM, rooted and ROM'd, no problems, just a neat multi tool in a pinch.

Yeah I'm sorry, I just feel pretty strongly about this I guess and Lemmy is one of the few safe places to vent to like-minded folks.

To explain myself a little: It's not the "normies" that the techy people hate, it's the perverted messed up world those less savvy in technology live in and everything about it, and with how much we've learned to circumvent corporate control it's often a culture shock to see that people just take it, even stuff like online ads or algorithmic content feeds, stuff I haven't experienced in probably a decade, like as if that's just normal, and the sad part is it is for so many.

Imagine if most of the world population was just falling for pyramid schemes or other blatant financial scams constantly. That's how it feels.

It becomes all too easy to blame the people rather than the systems that led to this, and sometimes it just feels like nobody outside of the hacker (classic definition) circles really gives enough of a shit to take control of the few things they can, and this is late stage capitalism, so I can't really blame them, we're all so tired just trying to survive.