Exactly what I said. To be clear, I wasn't necessarily disagreeing with your point, just pointing out that most people have cognitive dissonance about what "love" is.

Edit: maybe you thought I was referring to some subset of people? I'm referring to everyone who children will die of murder, cancer, heart disease, car accidents, any form of unnatural death and most forms of natural deaths. Anyone who has children has made the decision that the suffering of their child is "worth it"