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[-] teft@lemmy.world 116 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Introvert doesn't mean shy or socially anxious. I regularly tell people to shut the fuck up if they're in my space being annoying.

[-] CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works 80 points 1 year ago

Exactly this, my dad’s an introvert but is the most charismatic person I know. He does great with people, but is the last to arrive and the first to leave since he finds it so draining. He “recharges” when he’s by himself.

[-] z00s@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

That's kinda what I do too. I acknowledge it as an effort that needs to be managed and have strategies to recharge afterwards.

I don't hate being around people but it does take a lot of energy.

[-] theonyltruemupf@feddit.de 8 points 1 year ago

I'm the opposite. I'm an extrovert but really shy.

[-] Lath@kbin.earth 6 points 1 year ago

Oh, does that make him MajorEffort? Or GeneralEffort?

[-] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 year ago

He's actually AdmiralEffort.

[-] snooggums@midwest.social 9 points 1 year ago

I did that for a while, but got shit for it everytime and just stopped going out because it wasn't worth the hassle.

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