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[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

My family is Jewish and I've always been an atheist. My wife is also an atheist, but grew up in a Christian family. I've always felt uncomfortable going over to her house for religious holidays. Most of the Jesus talk is done at the pre-meal prayer, but that part makes me feel super uncomfortable.

But like Easter and Christmas, despite the fact that they've always been completely welcoming and non-judgmental to me, I just feel like a total outsider. Even after almost 24 years of marriage I don't feel used to it. I don't even feel comfortable with a Christmas tree in the house, but I don't fight it.

[-] Graymouzer@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Christmas trees predate Christmas.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Okay? That doesn't make it less uncomfortable for me since I didn't have them for the first two decades of my life and they're a Christian thing now.

Lots of things that Christians have adopted predate their religion. Like the entire Old Testament.

[-] blady_blah@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I was raised mostly secular and I'm now 100% atheist, however ... I like Christmas trees. Call it a Solstice tree if you want or name it something different. I don't. I just don't care. But I like the gift giving and decorating the tree with my wife and kids. It has zero religious significance if you don't want it to, but the holiday itself is fun.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

By a few million years at least

[-] neptune@dmv.social 5 points 1 year ago

This post is a tongue and cheek comparison of how capitalism has eaten Christian holidays, and how resurrection is handled in fiction.

I was raised in an authoritarian Christian environment, but on the plus side I am actually able to dissect a lot of popular fiction for my wife who was not raised with this burden. It turns out it's actually sort of hard to understand certain metaphors, symbols and short hand if both your parents are sarcastic atheists.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I realize that. This is pretty much off-topic, so I'll stop discussing it.

[-] Anticorp@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

That's interesting that you feel so out of place. I dated a Jewish woman for a little while and went to synagogue with her for Shabbat, and spent a couple holidays with her family. It all felt comfortable to me. I suppose maybe it's more natural for a Christian to participate in Jewish holidays than it is for a Jew to participate in Christian holidays. Judaism is basically half of Christianity, whereas Christianity is something completely separate to the Jewish. Rather, Christianity is something the Jewish have directly stated they don't believe the basis for. Does that sound accurate to you?

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

That may be accurate, but I told OP that I wouldn't talk about this further since it's off-topic, so I'll leave that there.

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