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[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 13 points 8 months ago

Oh man I need to go there!

...for the peace and calm.

...and maybe actually feel attractive lol

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 14 points 8 months ago

Everyone deserves to have a cute Filipina call their dad bod sexy 😤

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 8 points 8 months ago

I don't even have a dad bod! I've actually heard women say they prefer someone with a dad bod when I spent time on dating sites lol

I'm just whiter than white bread, short, hairy in all the wrong places and not at all in the right ones, and as for my face I'll just say I'm pretty aesthetically challenged lol

[-] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 6 points 8 months ago

You win the honesty game today - thanks for the read, that was lovely!

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 3 points 8 months ago

Lol glad I made someone's day a little better!

[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

The stereotypes may be those places but it’s certainly not limited to them. A bunch of years back I was touring Indonesia and somehow ended up with some way too young girls. We noped out of that as quickly as we could find our driver, but I was freaked out for weeks after. I don’t see how anyone is comfortable with that situation

Still tipped the driver though, for taking us around all day. I don’t know if he misunderstood going to a club, or the club jumped right to the stereotype

[-] astreus@lemmy.ml 3 points 8 months ago

You do see how your last statement is not okay and plays into racial fetishism, right?

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

If it wasn't a joke yeah I see that, but I was just using it as an opportunity to make fun of myself lol

But also, it would be them fetishizing me which I'm not against being as ugly as I am lol

[-] astreus@lemmy.ml 2 points 8 months ago

Gotcha! Though because it's fetishism due to internalised racism spread over the centuries that means "white is right" it's not okay to exploit!

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