Hey there, wonderful souls of the internet! ๐โจ
I'm Ben, a 21-year-old on the cusp of turning 22, and I want to share a piece of my heart with you. Life's journey has taken me through highs and lows, and today, I find myself standing at a crossroads - one that revolves around love, self-discovery, and the strength to embrace my authentic self.
It's no secret that the quest for love can be both thrilling and challenging. Recently, I've faced the hurdles that come with self-image and acceptance. As I celebrate who I am, I've also grappled with the realities of gaining weight, reaching 98 kgs. It's been a journey of self-reflection, and yes, some heartache too.
One chapter of my life saw a previous relationship come to an end, with weight becoming a focal point. It stung, but it also became a catalyst for my personal growth. I realized that true love begins within, with a deep and unyielding love for oneself. It's about embracing every curve, every inch, and celebrating the unique person we are.
So, here I am, standing tall and proud, sending out vibes of self-love and positivity into the vast expanse of the internet. As I navigate the path to finding love again, I am reminded that the right person will see beyond the superficial and appreciate the beauty that lies within.
To those who have faced similar struggles, remember that you are not alone. Let's encourage each other to be our authentic selves and radiate the confidence that comes from within. Love, after all, knows no bounds and transcends societal expectations.
As I blow out the candles on my 22nd birthday cake, I'm making a wish not just for me but for anyone who has ever felt the weight of judgment or struggled to find love: May we all find someone who sees us for the incredible beings we are, beyond appearances and societal norms.
Here's to the journey of self-love, growth, and the hope that true connection awaits us just around the corner. ๐๐โจ
With love, Ben
Is your disability obvious? You could collapse in front of an attractive man in the street and when they rush to ask if you're ok tell them in laboured breath "I must nibble toes or I DIE!"
When he takes his shoes and socks off gobble them toes like your life depends on it.
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Marriage?
Oh yeah, lol. I had a stroke at 21 that took like 90-95% of my nerve response on half my body, so I have trouble balancing among other things, gave me a quarter blindness in both eyes, took fine muscle control (I'd even say took course muscle control) on that same side (so my arm, hand, fingers, all deadweight), I walk slowly with a cane and awkward gait since I can not control my foot, ankle, or toes on that side. Add some memory loss and cognitive struggles as the cherry on top. Yay, kill me!~ (only kinda joking)
Too bad I'm not into feet, or I'd be taking notes xP