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What's a word you've spent a long time not using right? (lemm.ee)

submitted 2 years ago by shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Just recently I was in a conversation with a number of UK mainlanders and we had a debate over what "tories" meant, apparently disproportionately ordinarily it refers to a political party and it's not usual to use it as short for "territories" as I've used it (according to how the debate ended, it was half and half between them). And once again I'm reminded of how people feel to look back at their usage of a word/phrase over the years and cringe.

More tragically, me and a friend were embarrassed once upon realizing everyone was confusing "encephalitis" with "hydrocephalus" when talking to someone about their kid with hydrocephalus. Awkward because encephalitis is caused by HIV.

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[-] Therealgoodjanet@lemmy.world 27 points 2 years ago

it raises an eyebrow or two if the other person doesn’t associate the two conditions.

I don’t get it. It raises an eyebrow if you don’t link encephalitis and HIV? I’m about 90% sure I must be misunderstanding you...

[-] spacecowboy@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 years ago

Or they’re just doubling down on using it incorrectly.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

No it's true.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

Encephalitis has many causes, yes, but HIV is the one that sticks out. If you go to someone and talk about it, they're going to have the same "assume the worse" or "out of context" mindset as if you were to talk about mononucleosis (to give a distant analogy). Sure, mononucleosis can be caused by several things, such as sharing a toothbrush or having someone cry on you, but everyone associates it with what it's famous for, being spread through liberal usage of intimacy. Same with encephalitis. So when you go to a random neighbor here and say "how is the kid with encephalitis" they're not going to take it well. People here are prudish like that.

[-] XTL@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago

You have a very exceptional bubble. Or a false impression.

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