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Help needed with volume sensitivity (programming.dev)
submitted 2 years ago by bloopernova@programming.dev to c/autism@lemmy.world
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My wife and I are both autistic. She has difficulty moderating the volume of her voice, and I'm volume sensitive. So far she's been unable to recognize when I'm having trouble, and I've been unable to stop being so sensitive. :/

I've tried wearing earplugs but I have trouble remembering to keep them in.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to reduce volume from someone when you're sensitive and they're loud without realizing it?

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[-] idiomaddict@feddit.de 9 points 2 years ago

Especially if it’s a gentle, loving gesture. Otherwise it can feel like a rejection, so I absolutely second discussing it ahead of time.

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