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The classic answer is training. Guys tend to jack it a lot from a young age and train themselves to be quiet. Girls tend to masturbate less so less practise there.
I don't think it's purely that, because I don't moan when I masturbate, but I do with a partner. I think it's just about communicating what is good to your partner. I don't have to communicate what spot is good to myself. I breathe heavier, but I don't moan or say "right there" to myself.
Girls masturbate plenty and often start as children. I don't think that's what it comes down to.
Is this real? I don't see how it could possibly be real.
Start a bit later on average and rub one out a bit less than guys. There's a fair chunk of the female population that have never masturbated. Shocking I know! Not as socially acceptable perhaps? 🤷
Are there actual statistics about this, or are you just saying that bc it's what you believe?
This doesn't tally at all with my experience.
I wonder if it varies from culture to culture and how much of it is influenced by self-reporting.
I for one have maybe done so 5 times in my 40 years of life and do not feel the urge to do so. Only times I did I was drunk or high and I don't do that stuff. I rather just relax.
@Ataraxia there's so much diversity in the world!
I was probably doing it like 10x a day when I was a teen. Went to an all girls boarding school and it was just well known that most people there did it.
Don't downvote me. I assure you I have very little impact on the female masturbation stats one way or the other