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submitted 2 years ago by loopy@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

do you not smell body odor or do you just get used to it?

Genuinely curious. I have met a few people of different walks of life that I could tell did not and I have always used it, so I’m just curious. I know there was a couple that stopped using it for around a year, and they said their body actually end up not perspiring as much as when they used antiperspirant, but I’d like to know other people’s experiences.

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[-] WalrusDragonOnABike@kbin.social 18 points 2 years ago

I've never once noticed someone's body odor. On the other hand, some who just finished showering using a fruity shampoo reeks imo. Ditto for people who use perfume or cologne. And those often can also cause allergies for many people...

[-] ThatFembyWho 9 points 2 years ago

I've never once noticed someone's body odor

You are truly fortunate xD

I work in a warehouse and omg the things I have smelled. The worst is when the person working in front of me has strong BO and a fan is blowing it into my face all day.

[-] WalrusDragonOnABike@kbin.social 4 points 2 years ago

Can't be worse than someone with cologne sitting between you and a fan...

[-] ThoGot@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

Really depends on the cologne / dosage

[-] tfw_no_toiletpaper@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago

Lol I take pure cologne over stinky any day

[-] ThatFembyWho 1 points 2 years ago

colognes wear off, but stink only gets stronger and stronger...

[-] ThatFembyWho 2 points 2 years ago

The worst is the sickly sweet floral perfumes like my grandma, and sometimes my mom, would wear. Being trapped in a car with them, I think gave me PTSD bc I instantly go back to that feeling of suffocating nausea even to this day.

My partner will be like ooh try this (essential oil) and I'm like ugggghhh

Thankfully nobody really seems to wear those anymore. Even super pungent colognes don't hit me the same way, and we have some guys who must bath in that shit...

[-] KaleDaddy@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

Your comments are making it sound like you smell bad and just cant tell

[-] ThatFembyWho 1 points 2 years ago

Oh is that why everyone flees when I enter a room?

lol I would actually like to know how I smell to others. Gross, exotic... enticing? Assuming freshly showered and let's say no scented soaps or anything. Just normal scent.

My partner says not at all. The only thing that really bothers me is underarm odor, being transfem I feel like mine is a bit too masc, I need to reappy deoderant halfway through my shift at work.

Also would like to know how my voice sounds to others...

[-] squiblet@kbin.social 8 points 2 years ago

Yep, I have some sensitivity to fragrances and perfumes and unfortunately, people who use standard shampoo, conditioner, deodorant, laundry soap and dryer sheets smell horrible to me, sometimes from 5 feet away or just being in the same room. Some shampoo is so strong that I can smell it just from them having been in the same room 3 minutes ago. It’s unfortunate that sometimes, it’s people who think they’re being civilized and responsible, while in fact their scented stuff is causing problems that won’t exist otherwise. It’s actually harder to find products that don’t do this, though, as the standard American mainstream brand ones are all awful as far as fragrances go (Pantene, pert, suave, Gain, Tide, Bounce, Snuggle etc).

[-] MrsDoyle@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

The absolute worst is when you're swimming laps and someone goes past wearing perfume. You can taste it! Ugh. Shower before you swim, please (without fruity shampoo, lol).

[-] Drusas@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago

I feel like you must never have been in middle school if you've never smelled somebody else's body odor. Those kids need to be told to use antiperspirant by their gym teachers/coaches for a reason.

Also that you must have never had sex.

[-] Neato@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago

It's not really an issue for most people who aren't exercising. And I can say this as one who fucks, regardless of your juvenile attempts at disparagement.

[-] Drusas@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I made no attempt at disparagement. I was simply pointing out the fact that bodies produce scents when they have sex. In fact, I don't think there's anything wrong whatsoever with not having had sex regardless of one's age or gender. It's simply the truth that sex smells.

[-] WalrusDragonOnABike@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago

Been to middle school. Can't say BO was a problem. Axe body spray OTOH? Definitely was.

Can confirm lack of experience with sex.

[-] Drusas@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Axe body spray wasn't around when I was in middle school. So everybody just smelled like BO after gym class.

[-] WalrusDragonOnABike@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Lucky you. No wonder you think BO is bad if you didn't have to deal with much worse...

[-] Drusas@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Can definitely agree with you there. My sympathies.

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