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Check on your male friends to see if they need help
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this post was submitted on 14 Nov 2023
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It's 100% natural to not want to bring up personal/emotional shit as a guy, it's hardcoded into our DNA it seems.
I for one, don't because when I do get a rare chance to hang with the guys I'm not going to Buzzkill it, and neither do they like it's an unspoken man code. Our therapy is not talking it out like women do. Our therapy IS the hanging out/activities we do with our friends.
Man... You couldn't be more wrong and all you're doing is perpetuating the problem.
dude its because you guys were never taught how to express your emotion in a healthy and productive way. you probably don't even know where to start to express grief, just "I don't know" and "yeah I'm fine".