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Tips for surviving bars and pubs (lemmy.sdf.org)
submitted 2 years ago by ab60753@lemmy.sdf.org to c/autism@lemmy.world
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I hate pubs. I hate bars. All the people, loud music and other overstimulations make my brain go crazy... but most of my friends want to go to bars. Its seems like they are enjoying themselves... any tips to either get better att handeling sutch situations in fututure so i wont be as much of a antisosial outsider?

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[-] Setarkus@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Personally, I like getting together at someone's house, play some games, have some music (more as background noise most of the time) and maybe some drinks, though I prefer to stay sober and able to think straight.
I usually decline going to a bar, unless it's some special occasion, and then I'm mostly glued to some wall near my group while trying to maintain some form of overview of the situation.

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