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this post was submitted on 22 Jun 2023
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I totally see your point with "starting off with empathy". I think it's very noble. I don't think I could do it myself though. At least not 100% of the time. I've been metaphorically shat on so many times in so many different ways over the years that it's difficult to not immediately be suspicious of a lot of things. For example, it's hard to think critically about where the opinion is coming from/empathize with the writer of an article explaining why a gender-affirming care ban is Good Actually, when you yourself are some form of trans. It's hard to think critically about an article like that, when you know that 90% of the other people reading said article are reading it at face value and agreeing with it, & not thinking things like 'where is the basis for this opinion coming from'. My empathy battery is so constantly drained so quickly nowadays that trying to use the empathy thinking ways for every bigoted article I see would cause my brain to explode I think, lol.