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Hey could we defederate with exploding-heads.com/
(sh.itjust.works)
Home of the sh.itjust.works instance.
I suggest it because you clearly want a hands off approach to moderation which that instance offers.
At that point though again, why don't you just go to a more heavily moderated instance (which there are plenty of) rather than demand heavier moderation on this instance? Also, wanting a more relaxed standpoint on defederation, I can't see him wanting to move to a server that's likely to be heavily defederated by other instances itself.