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For perspective: I come from a country where "cafeteria" food at school is good and affordable (most is less than the equivalent of 5-10 USD max and it's not slop, it's actual food), but it's not an obligation for everyone since it's up to the student if they want to buy something or bring their own lunch.

The "cafeteria" in my school isn't a typical American one, rather it's closer to a canteen where they sell food you can purchase from cup noodles, fried stuff, sandwiches, baked goods, etc. also appliances like a kettle or microwave are available in the dining hall for students to heat up left overs if they wanted.

The thing I tend to notice from American schools (according to US movies, there's bias whether it's true or false) is that they tend to depict kids always heading for the cafeteria for recess or lunch picking up whats available instead of bringing their own food from home (left overs from dinner), why is that the case?

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[-] SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today 20 points 18 hours ago

Many United States public schools treat their students more like prisoners.

When I was going to elementary school in Texas, there was a traffic light on the cafeteria wall. If the light was green, we could sit where we liked. If the light was yellow, we had to sit in the same order we came through the line. If the light was red, we had to sit in the same order, and also we were not allowed to speak.

The food was terrible. We loved our awful little pizza rectangles because they were the least terrible thing we were served.

[-] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 2 points 5 hours ago

Oh god that fucking sucks. I'd ask why, but you alrready said the real reason: it's prison

[-] Catoblepas 11 points 17 hours ago

Holy shit, someone else that had the traffic light! They made us do alphabetical order seating instead of the order you went through line, which sucked because you couldn’t sit with your friends even if you couldn’t talk.

[-] frank@sopuli.xyz 6 points 15 hours ago

What?? Why? Like what caused the light to change?

[-] Catoblepas 9 points 15 hours ago

For us it was always being ‘too loud’, like a cafeteria full of children 10 and under is ever going to be that quiet. It’s not like kids were shrieking all the time or anything, they just talked excitedly. There weren’t even classrooms near the cafeteria to be bothered by the noise! The more I think about it the more I want to go kick them in the shins about it

[-] frank@sopuli.xyz 3 points 5 hours ago

So like if it changed mid lunch would you shuffle seats?

This is such an insane thing to do to kids lol I'm so sorry you had a traffic light in the cafeteria

[-] Catoblepas 2 points 4 hours ago

Oh, it was somehow even more convoluted. If the light went to red we had to remain silent the rest of the lunch where we were, and THEN the next lunch was sitting in alphabetical order in complete silence. It might be extended to multiple lunches if people kept trying to talk.

There was one period of time when we had heavy rain, it lasted for what felt like weeks straight, and we weren’t allowed outside. We kind of collectively started going insane from lack of exercise (we had no indoor gym), and then we got multiple days of red light silent lunches.

[-] khannie@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

That is weird as fuck. What a stupid rule. Kids are noisy.

[-] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 1 points 5 hours ago

The people who run schools hate kids and want them to suffer

[-] Ziggurat@jlai.lu 5 points 16 hours ago

But why ? Sounds like totally absurd as a rule

[-] SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today 9 points 14 hours ago

Control. Punishment and guilt are ingrained in our culture. Abuse has been normalized.

[-] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 2 points 5 hours ago

It's a very unsympathetic thing to say but it's also 100% true.

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