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[-] YouTalkinToMe@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago
[-] SarahValentine@pawb.social 4 points 22 hours ago
[-] SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today 4 points 1 day ago

Really? You can't think of anywhere else that would be worse?

The head is relatively tame, but the point is that he violated her personal space, her boundaries, without asking. He treated her like an object for his appreciation. Do you think young children should be okay with strange old men touching them? Do you think their parents should be okay with that? I don't. I can't say whether their choice was the best one, but I am absolutely glad they did something about it.

[-] YouTalkinToMe@lemmy.world 12 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

You seem to read a lot of things in my comment that only show your own disturbed mind. There might be reasons for that, but it does not justify your reaction.

[-] SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today 3 points 23 hours ago

Can you explain what you meant by "especially thier heads"? Where is it acceptable for a child to be touched without their consent, according to you?

[-] YouTalkinToMe@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Where exactly did you read from my comment that I find it acceptable to touch a child (or anyone for that matter) without consent? I don't. I referred to the fact that in certain cultures, a persons head is a seen as especially sacred. In those cultures, touching the head is not "relatively tame". I hope you learned something, but please try to listen to understand, not only to react. Good luck, and all the best.

[-] SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today 2 points 18 hours ago

I referred to the fact that in certain cultures, a persons head is a seen as especially sacred.

Oh? I see; Singapore is such a place. I did not know that.

In those cultures, touching the head is not "relative tame".

I live in the United States. Here, a pat on the head is condescending if unwelcome, but not as creepy as, say, touching a shoulder. Also, Our president is a pedophile. I am wary of anything that could be construed as normalizing the violation of consent and boundaries.

I hope you learned something, but try to listen to understand, not only to react. Good luck, and all the best.

I'm very concerned for victims of abuse. I wish I could help them.

Your comment does make more sense with the cultural context. Thank you for clarifying. I apologize for insinuating that you had any ill intent, I lacked the information to interpret your comment any other way.

[-] YouTalkinToMe@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

No need to apologise, I could imagine from where your reaction might have originated. Thank you, also for helping to not turn Lemmy into Reddit.

[-] SarahValentine@pawb.social 2 points 22 hours ago

Bunch of creepy motherfuckers showing up in this thread to tell us we should be okay with strangers touching our kids.

[-] SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today 2 points 22 hours ago

Yeah. I realize I can be intense sometimes, but I think it's very important to advocate for those who can't advocate for themselves. My autonomy was violently disregarded by my parents. I want to protect others because no one protected me. I don't know the best way to do that, so I try to use what I've got. What I've got is a broken foundation and a lot of anger, fear, and pain. It's easy to lash out, though probably not the most effective way of getting through to people.

Thanks for caring.

[-] SarahValentine@pawb.social 4 points 22 hours ago

I'm an abuse survivor myself. If people are going to sit around and do nothing while pedos run the world, they have no right whatsoever to tell their victims how to behave.

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