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submitted 1 year ago by alycat to c/bpd@lemmy.world
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[-] alycat 7 points 1 year ago

A helpful tip to get myself writing notes instead of lashing out at friends was to send DMs in a chat I was only in. So it felt like I sent it, but without the destroying my friendships part. For each message I'd also write notes down elsewhere and when I was done I'd copy-paste it to to wherever I wanted to send it. Once I got used to it, I would just write notes on my phone and then screenshot it and not send it anywhere. I still feel vindicated at the time, but now I don't have to deal with the aftermath. It's also good at documenting what I am thinking and what lead to it.

Hopefully someone else finds this useful :)

this post was submitted on 18 Aug 2023
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