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So just exactly the opposite of your first comment?
Well, my first comment was based on assuming everyone was heterosexual in the scenario. But if you throw lesbians into it, the dynamic changes.
Why? Your initial comment said that the man would respect that the woman wasn't single or available. If that's the case the gender of her partner shouldn't matter. If it does, it only means that the statement of the original post was true and he never respected the woman in the first place but the unknown boyfriend instead.
Also fetishizing lesbians is pretty much the opposite of respectful. 🤷♀️
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