How many of the choices you made in high school actually affect your adult life today? (lemmy.world)

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Was talking about home economics as a school subject in another thread and i realised that for me personally, taking "Food Tech" (cookery gcse) would have impacted me pretty negatively, even though generally speaking GCSEs don't have much of an effect on the rest of your life or education.

So i wonder if anyone else has similar revelations? My post title is also phrased more openly than that, so it doesn't have to be school specific, but i am mainly interested in things from the teenage time period.

Another choice i made in HS, for instance: i remember being really glad to have a medium-size group of friends in high school, but in retrospect they were terrible people and i realise that there would have been huge benefits to spending more time alone and in the library - yes, i genuinely look back and wish i studied more, lol. Something which I'm always told never happens.

This one "affects me as an adult" because i ended up entering adulthood with several friends determined to force their personality to be cool, relying on manosphere influencers to determine how they should behave; a lot of these people i didn't want to know in the first place.

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[-] OldQWERTYbastard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 14 hours ago

I didn't start getting stoned out of my mind until my late 30s so I guess my brain developed normally.

Go me.

[-] 0xKesh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 12 hours ago

I smoked weed in high school, a fair bit lol, I was definitely considered one of the "stoner kids" of the school.

In my 20's I stopped for the most part (only a joint here or there, maybe 2 or 3 times max per year), many of the kids I went to school with that were all anti drugs and anti drinking as kids became hard drug addicts in their 20's.

Now in my 30's I smoke again, much easier now that I can comfortably afford this habit

[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago

Huge win!!!

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

I didn't start until I was almost 40! But I think I've more than caught up for lost time.

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