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This post contains content related to media piracy. I couldn't find any rules for this community and I don't know if it's allowed. I accept the risk of getting this post taken down or being banned without knowing the rules.

With that small disclaimer out of the way, let's tackle my question.

I'm a simple self hoster: I have single server made out of an Optiplex 3060 Micro (i5 8500T, 32GB, 14TB of storage in one drive), I use duckdns instead of a real domain and I have no supporting infrastructure. I don't really like watching things, I set up arr stack mainly because everyone says it's the best thing to use a homelab for.

My family have strong opinions on piracy and I know for a fact they wouldn't use my jellyfin, even if I tried to manipulate them, which btw is a really bad practice (if it's as common as responses under posts about getting people to use your homelab suggest).

I also have hard time getting them to even allow me to run my homelab (I'm a teenager, I live with my parents), because it takes space and uses power (for context idle is around 8W).

As I said, I don't watch things that often and even if I watch, I'm extremely monothematic, I watch basically only AOT and sometimes some random popular movie.

I understand that my situation is quite unique, but I find it hard to argue for Jellyfin+arrs when fmhy and countless reliable streaming sites exists.

I already made my mind, I'll stop using those services today. I'm interested how others look at this "problem" tho.

Are you hosting arr stack/plex/jellyfin?

How much is it utilized (in watch hours/week for example, mine was less than 2/week)?

Have you considered not using it?

If you stopped using it and went back, what happened, why did you change your mind?

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[-] nutbutter@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 1 week ago

Sorry for going on a tangent, but what exactly are your family's opinion on piracy? I understand that they do not agree with piracy, but why? I have never seen any common person saying no to free stuff like that.

[-] garbage_world@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Piracy is bad because it's stealing, illegal (I live in Poland, a country with almost no practical restrictions whatsoever and I personally know my ISP, my parents are good friends with them) and "there can be some problems".

[-] KingKong33@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 week ago

Piracy isn't stealing. Stealing deprives someone else of something. Piracy doesn't deprive anyone else of access, it creates wider access. That's copyright infringement, not stealing.

If there's no restrictions, then how is it illegal? What problems can there be? The rest of this doesn't make a ton of sense.

[-] avidamoeba@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

If they use free streaming, tell them that's also piracy. (It really is) ๐Ÿ˜…

But actually don't. They don't sound like they came to these conclusions through rational reasoning so they prolly won't be convinced by rational argument. Keep it to yourself and coexist.

You can run a homelab as VM on your personal computer if you have one. Then there's no "other" computer for them to suspect. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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