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I'm top heavy and never wear a bra anymore. Fuck bras.
Maybe it's my autism speaking though, I've heard most women don't mind a bra, whereas it's actual fucking torture to me to wear a "well fitting" bra.
I was 42 years old when I finally gave myself permission to jusy wear my super comfy nursing sleeping bras all the time (I haven't nursed for two years). It's enough support for me (also top heavy) without any of the hastle that every mf bra has something that feels like torture.
It's liberating.
Women generally hate bras, at least in my experience. I’ve met a few young women who claimed they didn’t mind or women who wear them because they need to but I’ve never heard a woman express enjoyment about wearing a bra