PieFed dev Rimu bans user from Matrix (quokk.au)

submitted 3 months ago by Deceptichum@quokk.au to c/yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com

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Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
Rimu

What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?

Kicking from all Matrix PieFed rooms

Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

Rimu has been manufacturing non-stop drama for weeks. He ignores multiple offers from multiple parties to de-escalate, and now he bans someone for trying to promote non-discriminatory language. He has also now cut off a PieFed admin from any and all support and ability to contribute to the software.

Oh and the real kicker ? Rimu did all this after his big grand post about how he is stepping back from drama and hiding away from users.

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[-] alapakala@quokk.au 20 points 3 months ago

For the curious, here’s that antiableist list

[-] frongt@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

As for insults, be creative with your words and do so without being ableist.

So we should not say someone is stupid, rather, that they could not find their ass with both hands, could not fight their way out of a wet paper bag, could fall into a bucket of titties and come out sucking their thumb?

I'm not sure that that's better.

[-] alapakala@quokk.au 8 points 3 months ago

within context reply_insults_intelligence

[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Nice, thanks !

The list is recommending stubborn as an alternative to delusional, but I thought that meant someone born without limbs ? isn't that super-duper-ableist ?

Wiktionary says "uncertain origin" but in doubt I would just abstain

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/stubborn

edit I think I confused stub with stump.
Stump means "what remains of a limb that was cut off". My bad...

[-] alapakala@quokk.au 7 points 3 months ago

Isn't the idiom “hard-headed” more precise?
The etymology of stubborn still eludes us.
“Unwilling to budge” is also accurate.

[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 3 points 3 months ago

I'd rather use hard-headed, or something to do with a mule (as we say in french, mulehead)

[-] Envidon@feddit.nl 5 points 3 months ago

Thanks for sharing, do you know why disabled is preferred over handicapped? As a non native speaker they carry the same meaning/connotation for me.

[-] punkisundead@slrpnk.net 12 points 3 months ago

https://www.unitedaccess.com/us/en/blog/disability-rights/history-of-term-handicapped.html

[-] alapakala@quokk.au 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

What language?
“Handicapped” connotates the person can never be reenabled or regain ability. It also undermines enabling tools. It's often used as belittling language, instead enablement.

English is also not my native language.

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