the paradox, the more you need a therapist, the less energy you have to find a good one

I swear, bro, therapy is not a scam. You just need to find a good therapist. Please, bro, just one more therapist. I promise this one won't be a grifter like the previous eight. You're not trying hard enough, bro.

Why is it our responsibility to weed out the shitty ones and not the responsibility of the people working in that field to ensure patients aren't getting shitty therapists in the first place? That shit costs to much to be having to waste so much money and time on people who won't help you