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this post was submitted on 07 May 2026
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my ex-husband. we were forced to separate after 7 years because he didn't have legal status in this country and i couldn't sponsor him because gay marriage was still illegal.
he's ten years younger than i, so we was (barely) young enough to start over again with a new husband and now has a family in california. i since then have learned that he was my only chance for my asocial autistic old fat ass to do the same thing meanwhile men still flirt w him because of his genetically inherited abs and movie star quality good looks.
it's been 12 years and i still think of him of him every day; usually more than once.
I'm sorry the world is like this.
don't be, i'm reasonably certain that I'd make a really shitty father. lol