I like how rather than engaging with the comment where I apologized for the possibility that I might have unintentionally come off as antagonistic during my first reply to you and kickstarted this whole chain of events, you instead decided to go back to a comment you already replied to and just... continue posting through it about how I'm being hurtful and mean.

Maybe you should take a break and find a professional to talk to about all this hon. Or like... take a walk, go pet something fluffy, like... do anything but continue hitting the "Comment" button maybe? Either way, I'm done enabling this. Find someone else to rage at because they disagree with you and then say they're attacking you when they defend themselves from you calling them an "ableist pos" "stupid cunt" "good slave" and implying that if they were in Rosa Parks' shoes they'd have moved to the back of the bus just to name a few. Or again, is it okay when you do it because I apparently "attacked you first" when I didn't even realize I could even have been being antagonistic and even apologized for coming off that way if that was how what I said came off to you.

I hope you can find peace. Because mine's in the Block button. Have a nice life.

Kept attacking you? What are you talking about? All I did was ask you what good it does to come into a conversation about the difficulties in getting diagnosed with ADHD and basically just saying "Well maybe we shouldn't diagnose it like that." If I came off like I was attacking you, I'm sorry. That wasn't what I was trying to do there. I was genuinely just confused at what the point was of that comment.

But then the very next thing you did pretty much was to imply that if I was in Rosa Parks' shoes I'd have moved to the back of the bus. But I guess it's not attacking people when you're just "hitting back" huh?

(edit:wanted to change my wording to be less accusatory)

Obviously I don't have your entire story, and I'm prepared for you to immediately jump down my throat again for "defending psychatrists" for this. But you do know there's also a chance that they just... didn't have any more capacity at the ward at that time to provide the kind of care your SO needed right? Which is horrible, and I'm very sorry that the both of you went through that. But not everything is about psychiatrists wanting to push pills. There's a very real chance that their capacity to care for in-patient suicide risks was maxed out and that really was all they could handle at that time. Would you rather they have taken her into the ward and not had proper supervision on her and something happened to her in there because they took in too many patients?

The healthcare system is deeply flawed, it sucks, there are bad actors all over it. But that doesn't mean that everyone who shares a specialty with those bad actors is themselves also a bad actor. You might want to find someone to talk to about that experience, because it seems to have really deeply affected you.