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What hill are you willing to die on even if no one in your life agrees with you? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 4 weeks ago by Zonefive@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Water usage is probably my biggest. Living in a high desert, my wife and MIL see no problem with filling one side of the sink with hot soapy water to wash a few dishes because “that’s just how I’ve always done it”, to watering the grass and plants for hours. All of this makes me mental.

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[-] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 24 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I want to share my photos of our trip with you, but I don't want you to upload them to Google, or apple, or amazon, or meta, or any social media.

If it's a pic of you, fine, do whatever you want. But please don't take my whole album and store it in your google photos.

Edit: to maybe disambiguate, I go on a trip with someone else, we both take photos/videos using our own devices, and then afterwards we are exchanging what we took. Not like, me sharing photos with someone who didn't even go on the trip.

[-] Kurtagag@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 weeks ago

That seems logical.

[-] beSyl@slrpnk.net 1 points 4 weeks ago

Seems a bit creepy doing that..

[-] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 weeks ago

I think it makes total sense from their POV if I'm not posting my shit publicly and they want to be able to view it in the future. I will gladly make a copy of their photos of the trip for my own record, but I will store it in a way that only I have access.

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