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[-] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Different terms

For example: Its impolite to call a woman 阿姨 (Auntie), and you're supposed to say 靚姐 (idk how to translate this, it's [beautiful/pretty] + [character for "older sister"]). But I guess if they're old enough to be you're grandma, then you could say 阿姨... basically I think you use the term that's one-level younger than what they looks like: so if they look like an "Auntie" to you, you're supposed to use the "Beautiful Sister" term... (it sounds weird when translated but I heard it being used in Cantonese a lot its just normal)

On the other hand, 老師 (Teacher), 老細 (Boss), or 師傅 (to address someone that has learned a trade) are considered polite (at least that's what I hear my mom use). Similarly 老爺 is used by mom to address my paternal grandfather. These all have the 老 (old) character in it but its fine??? I guess 🤷‍♂️

[-] joyjoy@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 months ago

Damn, they've been using unc as an insult all this time? 

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 1 points 2 months ago

Interesting, seems like a very gendered issue.

[-] fruitycoder@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

"Oh i didnt know you had a beautiful sister!" Is a wierd type rope kind of flirt in (american?) English that i know of.

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