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Does intentionally antagonizing people like this actually lead to positive outcomes?

[-] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 78 points 1 week ago

well, not doing it hasn't led to results, let's try this for a while and see what happens.

Does personal amusement count?

[-] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 12 points 1 week ago

Yes. Very much so.

[-] porous_grey_matter@lemmy.ml 50 points 1 week ago

owning the chuds is a positive outcome

[-] mycodesucks@lemmy.world 47 points 1 week ago

They don't see your refusal to stoop to their level as some kind of enlightened position - they see it as a weaker person kowtowing to their strength. The only reason these horrible people were under control for so long was because they believed progressive voices were unstoppably stronger and willing to use that strength. They won't go away until they believe that again.

[-] BillCheddar@lemmy.world 44 points 1 week ago

Yes, it does.

It helps to understand that your target isn't the bigoted asshat you mock. You're gonna lose him because he was already lost.

Your targets are everyone else reading along, now or later.

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 30 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Holy shit yes. Thank you for saying this.

This is important to remember in most public conversations, especially online. It especially helps to keep you grounded and prevent you from getting bent.

You’re not arguing with a person, you’re performing to an audience. Talk to the people listening, not to the dipshit trying to rile you up.

[-] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago

Your targets are everyone else reading along, now or later.

This is why i argue and don't block, in a nutshell.

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 34 points 1 week ago

It's not antagonising.

They literally got where they are because no one told them they're fucking idiots, their opinions are shit, unacceptable and they need to stfu. They think it's silent assent. Put the cunts back down where they belong.

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 27 points 1 week ago

They’re intentionally antagonising us first. Turnabout is fair play.

Also, I would only recommend doing this online or in a large group where they either can’t physically hurt you or they won’t because you have backup. In my experience, this can set people off, yeah.

[-] notthebees@reddthat.com 7 points 1 week ago

Only if they do it to other people and being purposefully dense. Sometimes it's okay to fight fire with fire. Time, place, occasion

[-] madjo@piefed.social 6 points 1 week ago

No but those people are lost causes anyway. There's literally no point in trying to convince them how wrong they are.

[-] Mika@piefed.ca 2 points 1 week ago

I really doubt this whole situation isn't just made up tbf

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