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Recommended Reading
- The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, And Love by bell hooks
- Politics of Masculinities: Men in Movements by Michael Messner
Related Communities
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Thank you, Kit.
Here are some questions:
I don't want to wear out my welcome so I'll stop there. No rush to answer, I'd prefer more complete answers to quick ones.
I did also want to mention that one thing blew my mind - The way that the dynamics of a room change when it's all men, versus when there's a single woman in the room. With all men, it seems like guys relax and suddenly don't feel the need to walk on eggshells. Social courtesies become significantly less important and men tend to communicate more directly. Next time you're in a room of all men and a woman walks in, keep an eye out for the subtle differences in how men behave.
I love that you did this mini AMA. Thank you for that. 🤗
This is all very interesting. Thanks again, Kit.
If you yearn for a male only space, check out the Freemasons. There's something there for everyone, and it's a great way to make friends later in life.
I wish there was a safe way for women to take T. I wanna experience clarity of mind and less emotion. I'm also assuming it increases being horny?
To be clear, clarity of mind is my own personal experience and it's unclear if T affected me that way because that's what it's like for everyone or if it can be attributed to dysphoria. In other words, it's possible that I didn't feel right in my body so I couldn't focus on the things around me.
Bear in mind that Estrogen levels drop during menopause so you'll find out one day. :)
My horniness was not impacted by T.
I'm crossing my fingers that you'll get a reply, and not as a PM. I'm bursting with curiosity but such things are so very difficult to even have opportunity to be enlightened.
I replied above just now. I got stuck on #4 and thought on it for the night.