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Side note, the restaurant analogy is exactly why I hate the seemingly American style of service where the waiter asks how the food is halfway through.
I guess that's a good analogy for how creepy surveillance capitalism is, it's like a waiter judging and recording your every move and reaction throughout the entire meal.
I'm not sure where you're eating, but wait staff ask that so they can correct any issues before it impacts their tip, not because they're keeping tabs on you.
So that's what's going on! I was wondering why people are doing that everywhere I eat out all of a sudden. Bloody annoying. Me with a mouth full of food having to force out a "yhh shh rlly gwwd tnnk yww".
Gtfoutahurr
just thumbs up if its good, or hold up one finger until you finish chewing if you want something. sounds like more an issue with your table manners than anything tbh. sheesh.
just one of the many negatives of tip culture
I'm not tipping. I refuse to adopt that culture as well. I'll literally die on that hill. Workers deserve a wage, not to depend on people's good graces like beggars wiping car windows.
then don't eat at places with tipped workers, you're not discouraging anything by stiffing people.
I just give them a thumbs up.
That wouldn't work equally well as a joke online though 😆
Just give them a thumbs up???
https://vger.to/lemmy.world/comment/20809986
Perfectly acceptable