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[-] papertowels@mander.xyz 31 points 5 days ago

ITT: people who have never had to learn that sometimes when someone complains to you they are not solution oriented, and it genuinely just feels good to share something wry/ridiculous to bond over.

It's a good skill to pick up, folks. Definitely comes into play in relationships.

[-] absentbird@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago

Sure, they're just venting, but I just wanna talk about Linux all day. I'll listen to their problems, treat them with respect and understanding, but you better believe I will also squeeze in a little special interest sauce on my side of the conversation sandwich.

[-] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago

I fucking love Linux so fucking much.

[-] Siethron@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

It's not about the nail!

[-] jupiter_jazz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 days ago
[-] papertowels@mander.xyz 3 points 5 days ago

Damn, that actually was a wonderful talk, thank you for sharing.

To anyone who bristled at my earlier comment - if you're looking for a solution, this video lays out a foundation for the different types of conversations folks can have, goes over why it's important to differentiate between them, and gives concrete action items to take. It's also just a well paced, riveting ted talk, to boot.

[-] Landless2029@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Thanks for the link.

Great video.

this post was submitted on 26 Oct 2025
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