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Matrix vs XMPP vs IRC
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A place to share alternatives to popular online services that can be self-hosted without giving up privacy or locking you into a service you don't control.
Not OP, but what I do lack here is a decent server Implementation in a single binary and easy deployment.
Also decent native clients for various platforms. Do we have any good ones?
This probably isn't a xmpp specific, but I'd like to have it work like wireguard. If the keys are wrong, self hosted instance would just reject it on the packet level. Then only authorized clients could use it. Outgoing connection on some hub instance would give access to outside world. All this would help with self hosting.
I remember reading about Snikket (hope I remember the name right) which should address exactly this.
https://docs.ejabberd.im/admin/install/