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[-] CaptSatelliteJack@lemy.lol 19 points 6 days ago

My mom did this to me when I told her I was having suicidal ideation. "I knew it, I knew you use this against me." I don't she was taught to do that for my benefit tho...

[-] CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 6 days ago

holy shit fam, take care please

[-] CaptSatelliteJack@lemy.lol 9 points 6 days ago

First of all, I appreciate that. Empathy is power. Secondly, I made it out. I'm thriving in ways I never would have imagined even a few months ago, let alone the years it's been since that situation.

To anyone who finds themselves in the dark, hold on.

[-] stelelor@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago

That is a beautiful comic, thank you for sharing. Congratulations on making it through.

[-] CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 6 days ago

i feel bit angy that you foo|ed me

but on the other side feel better from the fact that there's a happy person standing, where moments ago i imagined an unhappy one

What's the reason for the trickery, may i wonder?

[-] Alfredolin@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 days ago

This person made it out of the bad situation. They did not make up the situation.

[-] CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 5 days ago

I need to go to fucking sleep, damn, this is beyond stupid of me

[-] Alfredolin@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 days ago

Honestly, I misunderstood too for a couple of seconds. :)

[-] CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

it was a sleepless nigh for me, and i left lots of comments over here during it. I wonder, how many of them are actually just as stupid

~~drive~~ comment responsibly, kids, don't repeat my mistakes

[-] Beebabe@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

The example in the meme is a technique called redirection, and does not neglect aftercare. It just deescalates the situation to a safer level. Your example is more like emotional abuse, neglect, and more. I’m so sorry that happened to you, I hope you’ve been seen and heard and have a safe place now.

[-] CaptSatelliteJack@lemy.lol 2 points 6 days ago

Yeah, aftercare was certainly not part of the picture for this particular situation. The good news is that I made it out in one piece. I'm living the good life these days, and all the more grateful for it.

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